Yeah. I don't wanna get too far into this one. Vaginoplasty Surgery was around 7 years ago now and honestly most of that time my life kind of took a dive off a cliff.
And now that it's not off a cliff anymore, I have to reconcile with the fact that I don't really have a vagina. I have *whatever this is*.
I can provide pictures later, but it's all the usual stuff I feel. The urethral opening is strange and swollen. The vaginal opening doesn't really sit inside the rest of it? It almost looks like the urethral opening is supposed to be vaginal opening, just based on position and appearance, really fucking weird, I get bacterial infections constantly, and even 7 years later it just is clearly not right.
At the time I got this surgery, there wasn't really the same info readily available. That was even before this sub was created. I was a desperate teen, my mother and I were both kind of desperate to get it done and the original surgeon we wanted to go with had a mixup in their records and actually did not even have letters on file for me when they said they did and it was this whole deal. It's not important my point is I don't really wanna be victim blamed or told I should know better. I was a traumatized 19 year old with multiple attempts.
So yeah. What exactly are my options? The fuck can I actually do? Am I kinda just doomed?
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