Is my vagina cis looking?

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u/browneyeddreamgirl
Sun May 21 01:51:39 2023 UTC
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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 15:01:35 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Cis vaginas come in all shapes and sizes so there’s nothing to really compare to. Yours is always going to be unique just like another cis woman. It came out great though!

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u/TheInsideOutGirl
Sun May 21 14:54:36 2023 UTC
(1 child)

Omg I recall your other post where you were dissatisfied with results and this looks amazing post revision!! This gives me so much hope to!! Thank you for sharing!!!

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OP
Sun May 21 15:15:08 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Yes, Dr. Littleton worked a miracle on me. I’ve got to go back this year for a touchup and I’m done. Never give up!

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u/ailbbhe
Sun May 21 02:50:17 2023 UTC
(7 children)

It looks beautiful! And I don’t think anyone would think it isn’t cis.

Even among cis women vaginas are all super different. Every single one of my cis friends/gfs has felt like their vagina doesn’t look normal at some point and all the ones I’ve seen look completely fine. And yours is no different. And honestly most of them I’ve talked to are self conscious cause their vagina doesn’t look more like yours. I really wouldn’t worry it looks amazing.

Also that scar healing is amazing. I didn’t even notice it til you pointed it out!

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OP
Sun May 21 03:26:32 2023 UTC
(3 children)

Thank you so much! I’m bad self conscious 😞

Sun May 21 06:03:38 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 07:28:27 2023 UTC
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There's no such thing as a "virgin look". It's a myth. I am afab and comparing my natal bits to fishing bait feels extremely body shamy and gross. Long labia is normal. Short labia is normal. There isn't anything wrong with either and post birth things go back to normal.

I've never birthed anyone, and my junk looks like how you described. And looked like that when I was a virgin. I've always been very self conscious about my anatomy there and well...it stings differently seeing my anatomy being talked about like this by another trans person.

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Sun May 21 07:31:42 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 05:56:57 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 08:21:33 2023 UTC
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u/Anastasia69Sanchez
Sun May 21 10:09:18 2023 UTC
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Unfortunately not. But if you get with some guys they won't even notice. Most guys are not even anyways or they wouldn't care. As long as you're happy that's all that matters

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Sun May 21 16:59:01 2023 UTC
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(1 child)

Why isn't?

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Sun May 21 17:17:50 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Just doesn't look authentic

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u/anneTS72
Sun May 21 08:41:42 2023 UTC
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Awesome

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u/piglungz
Sun May 21 16:05:19 2023 UTC
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Ignoring the scars which you said you’ll be getting laser on the main thing that would make me think “not cis” is the fact I can’t see your clit. I think someone who knew what to look for might be able to tell but the majority of people would not think twice.

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u/Jo-Wolfe
Sun May 21 07:34:34 2023 UTC
(1 child)

A cis friend of mine had a labiaplasty recently, every woman’s vulva is different. The Great Wall of Vulva

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Sun May 21 16:02:26 2023 UTC
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The great wall is fantastic for showing off variety amonst cis women, but it does also contain results from trans people so I think it needs a mild disclaimer there. But it's a good thing; we're normal for being trans and it doesn't make us women any less so we should be included. Even if it's not "cis-passing" (however you want to define that) it's still normal and looks good, so the only other considerations are personal safety and satisfaction.

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u/EscapePast7128
Sun May 21 15:46:17 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Depends on who's looking I'd imagine (I wouldn't have a clue even being trans). I highly doubt most men would be able to tell, they get to look at vaginas so much less

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u/Honest_Garlic_6509
Sun May 21 04:01:52 2023 UTC
(9 children)

No.

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Sun May 21 05:45:10 2023 UTC
(8 children)

I've seen cis vaginas that look identical tbh!

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Sun May 21 14:15:09 2023 UTC
(7 children)

why did you get downvoted and the other person get upvoted, feels the wrong way around

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Sun May 21 14:25:24 2023 UTC
(3 children)

It definitely looks like a vulva, I just have never seen a vulva that looked like this (yes, I've looked at labia library).

I'm not saying it looks bad at all, I think this is a good outcome. I just don't think it looks 'cis' which is what OP was asking.

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Sun May 21 14:52:05 2023 UTC
(2 children)

I get what your saying but i think in this case because no cis vulvas look the same while there is a general idea there is no exact baseline. also I thunk to most cis people this would be near indistinguishable from a cis vulva.

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Sun May 21 15:58:06 2023 UTC
(1 child)

The problem is we're getting into the unhealthy part of passing discussion that can turn a bit too hugboxy. It's a good looking vagina and contributes to the variety of vaginas out there. But we can spend all day discussing how cis vaginas should look like, and all that does is reinforce the idea that you have to be cis-passing. Which is an impossible bar to set and only really gives trans women more dsyphoria.

Like I don't think saying "most men are uneducated on how vulvas look" is really helpful for trans women looking for feedback? I dunno.

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Mon May 22 11:21:22 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I get what your saying completely, im really sorry if what I said came across that way that was not my intention, what I ment and was evidently not what was convayed (I sure do love having horrible communication skills) What I was trying to say is similar to what you actually said (at least I think) what I was trying to say and should have just said is that because there really isnt a ‘standard vagina’ as long as OP is happy with it, how cis it looks (which being non quantifiable really is quite silly come to think of is) really isn’t important, she does have a good result and thats really all that matters

I just realised i started both of these comments with I get what your saying, probably best to ignore me Im just a silly sleep deprived anxious person who isnt very good at making a coherent sentence

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Sun May 21 22:59:11 2023 UTC
(2 children)

the almighty mysterious downvote 🤣 😝

No idea!

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Mon May 22 11:24:35 2023 UTC
(1 child)

it almost as though there is either a level of toxicity unspoken or a lot of transphobes hiding in thw shadows

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Mon May 22 12:08:53 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Yeah where they belong! 😤

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u/theprincesspinkk
Sun May 21 20:41:26 2023 UTC
(4 children)

it looks pretty above average for a trans vagina. But no trans vagina looks quite like a cis vagina, the tension causes a very different appearance to the labias. ppl will downvote and come for me, it’s just the way it is.

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Sun May 21 21:07:22 2023 UTC
(3 children)

Not true. My endocrinologist said vaginoplasty results have fooled gynaecologists.

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Sun May 21 22:37:23 2023 UTC
(2 children)

so not ur experience, or the experience of the person who told u that, but of unnamed doctors in an anecdotal structure. rock solid evidence! take a sample of neovaginas on this sub and compare them to vaginas on a cis female sub with vaginas and get back to me :)

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Sun May 21 23:59:23 2023 UTC
(1 child)

Yes, my experience. Yes, the experience of the person who told me that. Yes, the experience of my cis wife and previous sexual partners.

https://youtu.be/rzbtSeVZeEE

You need to work on your internalised transphobia.

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Mon May 22 00:13:19 2023 UTC
(0 children)

im just using the images on this sub as my evidence… it looks very similar in some cases, but it’s different

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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 05:09:06 2023 UTC
(4 children)

There's about 10,000 different variations of vaginas.. They're all vaginas... Your vagina looks like a vagina.. it looks very good actually who is your surgeon..?😊❤️

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OP
Sun May 21 05:51:49 2023 UTC
(2 children)

Thank you! Dr Littleton

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u/valszp
Sun May 21 13:46:02 2023 UTC
(0 children)

From Brazil? Mine with other surgeon in rio de janeiro.

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u/papa_za
Sun May 21 14:46:11 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Yeah! Vulvas all look so different but I've definitely seen some cis women's look like yours :)

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u/PositiveNo3875
Sun May 21 17:03:07 2023 UTC
(0 children)

May I ask you to post a spread pic to reply? Maybe it would be better to get an opinion :)

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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 23:10:54 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I would say the lack of definition to your labia minora and the inability to see your clit is what would clock you as not cis if someone was staring intently.

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u/Glass_Accountant2189
Mon May 22 01:28:31 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I think it's very pretty and neat. It's your, you own it, be proud of it ❤️

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u/TheSparklyNinja
Sun May 21 15:11:10 2023 UTC
(5 children)

If someone wasn’t looking to examine or transvestigate it, on first glance it would seem like a cis vagina, which will probably be the majority of interactions other people will have with it.

If someone was trying to really analyze your vagina to determine if it was natural, I’m sorry to say you would probably get clocked. You don’t have a visible clitoris, (unless that protrusion IS your clitoris, then you don’t have a normal looking one.) Your labia is also pretty small (which you could probably just pass off as being a virgin or having had cosmetic surgery, unless you don’t have inner labia, then you could ONLY pass it off as cosmetic surgery.) but it’s primarily missing a visible clitoral region and shape. (Which if you’re having sex with the average guy who can’t find the clitoris anyway, probably won’t be obvious to him. If you have sex with a woman though, they might notice.)

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Sun May 21 18:20:21 2023 UTC
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Your labia is also pretty small (which you could probably just pass off as being a virgin or having had cosmetic surgery,

Sorry, but any connection between labia size and virginity is absolute BS.

I say this as a transmasc dude who has happened to only ever have sex with people born with vulvas, "virgin" and "not virgin". I'm guessing by "virginity" you mean vaginal penetration from a penis/ dildo, and I promise that kind of sex changes nothing about the inner or outer labia. People's labias can be absolutely any size no matter how often/ if they've had penetrative sex, trust me lol. Some people have no/ basically no inner labia to speak of naturally, and outer labia can also be really, really small naturally.

And OP, my two cents is that the only thing that I don't see is a clitoris, but you've already mentioned that you have one so it must just be this photo. With a visible clitoris I wouldn't think twice seeing your vulva. Maybe I'd think you had an inner labial reduction/ removal because of how smooth the area is, but tbh my first assumption would be that your vulva was just another natural variation.

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Sun May 21 23:16:25 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Yeah, I have to agree. As a Trans man with literally NO labia minora on the lower portion and minimal on the upper portion even after having a child, virginity and sexual acitivity have nothing to do with labia. I do think OP would look slightly more cis if she had longer labia minora, but her results are excellent aesthetically, and many cis women would love to have less visible labia.

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OP
Sun May 21 15:16:56 2023 UTC
(1 child)

It’s actually closed up, but when I open my vagina, I have a visible clitoris. I will post more pictures soon.

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Sun May 21 15:24:00 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Sounds good

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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 16:36:38 2023 UTC
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I've seen similar labia on some of my partners. congrats!

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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 05:22:37 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Awesome result!!!

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u/tacoslave420
Sun May 21 17:25:39 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Looks beautiful! It honestly looks a bit tight, like if you had your hand on the pubic area and were pulling everything upward. Idk if that's for the pic or if that's in a resting state. Absolutely authentic looking.

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u/michele4848
Sun May 21 11:15:39 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Honey! It Looks Beautiful!!!

Go Girl!!

Michele

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u/jacknikedisamotracia
Sun May 21 15:33:45 2023 UTC
(1 child)

🫥 i don't know if it's worth to say the truth or if you would take it as a direct offense ad-personam. its not my intention to hurt your feelings, and i wholeheartedly understand that this is probably the best you could achieve and that between : choosing to be potentially suicidal an dysphoric for the further 10 years while setting up things in order to find the right surgeon, the fly, the stay, and money if it isn't covered from insurance, and settling for the best you could achieve as soon as possible with the nearest/ covered from insurance surgeon you found, but at least in exchange, relieve your dysphoria, you've choosen the second. but unfortunately it isn't cis looking because i don't see little labia nor clitoris. you can be happy anyway, because if you chosed to have this now, it means that you couldn't manage to be like before anymore, and this result is the best you could achieve giving your personal situation, weighting your pros and cons. happyness doesn't depends upon how much a genital is cis looking or not, functional or not, etc. these are all relatable goals, if i could've born a cis man i would've chosen it without regret, but i'll have to settle for too. happyness depends upon doing the best we can with what we have/can afford/achieve.

after all this maximum philosophic text maybe it's only that you're sitting in a position that doesn't allow me to view objectively the entire situation, so if it's the case feel free to correct me 😅 anyway, for what concerns non-sexual related situations, such changing in the changingroom labeled for "women", you absolutely pass and nobody on earth would say otherwise, because depending on the shape of every individual woman, there are women with such tiny little labia&clit and such developed mons/big labia that it's all hidden if they stand up naked. if this was the situation in wich context you want to pass, you absolutely pass.

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Sun May 21 18:54:50 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I just want to add that not every cis woman has a clit due to a handful of reasons! Not saying your input is bad, but wanted to add that in case op isn't aware. 🙂

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u/4reddityo
Sun May 21 03:24:31 2023 UTC
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Beautiful vagina

u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 04:39:45 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 05:15:07 2023 UTC
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u/TSUnicorn64
Sun May 21 17:24:26 2023 UTC
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Omg a beautiful coochie for a beautiful baddie. ♥️ ugh DM me your snap would def love to pick your brain sometime since I hardly see any WOC on here

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u/Amazing-Stock4944
Tue May 23 03:42:25 2023 UTC
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I think it looks cis if you’re wearing pants or standing up. Upon close inspection though no neo pussy looks truly cis to someone who is educated about cis vulvas and vaginas. There are definitely differences and I wish everyone could be ok with that but I get it’s not easy.

That said you have a great vulva and it’s amazing what these surgeons are capable of! You should be happy with it if you can, you’re very lucky!

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u/Cgnc22
Sun May 21 03:10:14 2023 UTC
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You look natural, no doubt

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u/xXxShadowCreeperxXx
Sun May 21 14:10:34 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I definitely think so!

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u/External_Mongoose_44
Sun May 21 10:46:12 2023 UTC
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Congratulations girl on your perfect vagina. It certainly looks completely cis. It looks gorgeous. I’m really jealous but I’m also so very happy for you. It’s perfect and again, congratulations girl on such a beautiful outcome. 🏳️‍⚧️🦋🌸🤍🌸🦋🏳️‍⚧️

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u/VerucaGotBurned
Sun May 21 03:51:51 2023 UTC
(2 children)

110% it looks better than a lot of cis vaginas I've seen.

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Sun May 21 04:14:09 2023 UTC
(1 child)

I want mine to look that way

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Sun May 21 04:45:12 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Me too

u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 05:49:48 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 12:44:29 2023 UTC
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God what a gross comment

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Sun May 21 15:26:46 2023 UTC
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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 05:14:28 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 05:17:01 2023 UTC
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u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 21:40:15 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 22:16:56 2023 UTC
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Rule 5. This sub is by and for trans people.

u/[deleted]
Sun May 21 21:58:09 2023 UTC
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Sun May 21 22:14:26 2023 UTC
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u/One-Extent-7841
Mon May 22 12:40:38 2023 UTC
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Just try to get them to give you more labia majora around the forchette area. The vagina hole is just too seen if that makes sense. Beautiful clit hood ! Please don’t feel down either . Trust me it can be so so much worse. Much love

u/[deleted]
Sun May 28 19:04:35 2023 UTC
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Sun May 28 19:25:09 2023 UTC
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Rule 5. This sub is by and for trans people. Do not post if you are not trans.

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u/qt_bea
Mon Sep 25 21:48:44 2023 UTC
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Not cis looking no, but it does look nice! It really doesn't look bad, but it seems like you're missing definition of lips and clit. Those can be subtle but they usually show as a bit of color variation at minimum and I don't see a clit or a bump of one at all. That said, it does look pretty and smooth and feminine at least!

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u/[deleted]
Fri Feb 23 23:50:29 2024 UTC
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Hey I’m getting srs done. Did you get any laser or electrolysis hair removal down there before srs? Some docs don’t require it. I lowkey wanna get it done but then again I’m scared of the pain