I’ve been botched…

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u/Kuroi_yasha
Wed Jun 7 14:23:13 2023 UTC
(23 comments)

During my robotically assisted peritoneal pull through vaginoplasty, Dr. Bonnington knicked my bowel, significantly, in two places. They had to get a general surgeon to repair the damage. Instead of having a virginal canal, now I simply have a minimal depth vaginoplasty… 4cm… I’m devastated.

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u/[deleted]
Wed Jun 7 14:50:20 2023 UTC
(12 children)

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OP
Wed Jun 7 14:53:16 2023 UTC
(11 children)

Thanks, I know. At least I’ll look right. It’s just hard knowing that’ll it’ll be another year or two before I can get a revision, and I’ll have to pay for and go through another surgery.

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Wed Jun 7 22:19:01 2023 UTC
(0 children)

They should be paying.

30
Wed Jun 7 15:25:39 2023 UTC
(2 children)

I'm so sorry sister, but you have more options with a revision, yes it's discouraging having another surgery but definitely there's hope.

Try to heal internally, doing therapy in preparation. Is the any way you can ask for them to pay you the revision? They're responsible for this outcome....

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OP
Wed Jun 7 15:40:19 2023 UTC
(1 child)

I don’t know. It’d be nice, especially since I had to pay out of pocket for the surgeon fees…

15
Wed Jun 7 16:06:54 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Asking about it to a social worker may help? I wish you the best, sending healing vibes from here 💫

11
Wed Jun 7 22:22:50 2023 UTC
(4 children)

Are they at least offering a free revision?

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OP
Wed Jun 7 22:31:13 2023 UTC
(3 children)

I don’t know. I’ll have to ask about it on first post operation appointment.

Wed Jun 7 23:56:03 2023 UTC
(2 children)

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OP
Thu Jun 8 00:18:28 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I hope you’re right.

2
Fri Jun 9 06:07:48 2023 UTC
(0 children)

i 100% believe that they would charge to fix it, but i hope you can get them to cover it anyway. i have a bladder fistula from their mishap and they did nothing for me.

6
Wed Jun 7 15:28:49 2023 UTC
(0 children)

It sucks, for sure, but as long as there are solutions, keep your chin up towards the future.

4
Thu Jun 8 06:51:36 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Wait...they fucked it up, and they're going to make you pay for a second procedure to fix their mistakes? That's fucking bullshit. I am so sorry, hun. You deserve better

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u/Kuroi_yasha
OP
Thu Jun 8 00:35:05 2023 UTC
(1 child)

Thank you all, you’ve made it much easier to cope. Just knowing there’s a community out there supporting me makes such a big difference. 🥲

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u/melenaza
Wed Jun 7 15:51:48 2023 UTC
(1 child)

Consider waiting 1-2 years of healing before doing a repair surgery. I suggest you to contact PAI clinic in Thailand

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u/Axell-Starr
Wed Jun 7 19:07:15 2023 UTC
(0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope that in the end things work out for you.

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u/Mundane-Winter-8935
Wed Jun 7 20:26:45 2023 UTC
(1 child)

I wouldn’t consider this procedure as botched. There was a complication during surgery and that happens, it’s very well discussed during consultation and should be aware, complications can happen during and after. As unfortunate as it is, not getting the full canal as planned you’re still able to get your vagina and will be able to get your full depth at a later time, since you have minimal depth it won’t take nearly as long for your healing, but going forward to get your full depth i second going to Dr Jun for the revision.

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Thu Jul 20 11:27:13 2023 UTC
(0 children)

If she has zero depth than she was botched period

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u/[deleted]
Thu Jun 8 02:19:48 2023 UTC
(1 child)

If they say they won’t pay for the revision. Threaten to sue them.

3
Thu Jun 8 06:48:47 2023 UTC
(0 children)

They require binding arbitration. Printed in color and signed with colored ink.

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u/mspv3xtreme
Wed Jun 7 16:29:36 2023 UTC
(4 children)

Sooooo sorry op!! :((((((((((

Talk to dr jun after yearshave passed………he trained with dr djordjevich in serbia dr bbl/zhao…….

Anyone can operate a robot…….. but operating a robotic pvf well is an art.

Let this be a warning when choosing sf clinics. Dr jun only for peritoneal

Wed Jun 7 18:21:41 2023 UTC
(3 children)

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Wed Jun 7 18:26:09 2023 UTC
(2 children)

Isnt enough peritoneal tissue?……like your abdomen is covered in it and it grows back….

Only issue is if you gots adhesions from a appendicitis surgery or chrons disease you cant do peritoneal……and you certainly cant do colon neither!

OP SUE!!!!!!!!

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Wed Jun 7 19:25:15 2023 UTC
(0 children)

Telling op to sue is wild. You will only win compensation if it can be proven that the doctor did not operate with the standards set by the medical field they are operating in. They will get other doctors who do the same procedure in to review whether or not clinical neglect happened. Mistakes can happen and if it was just a mistake, ie not easily avoided negligence, op is just going to waste time and money, not to mention the emotional stress of going through a court case over such an already stressful and potentially traumatising surgery. Literally on what grounds would op have to sue on? Do you have any idea how clinical negligence cases actually work?