Hey friend! I'm exactly one month ahead of you; mine was with Brassard on May 8th.

So I'm rounding up on month 2 now, and I'd say halfway through the second month was when the pain basically vanished.

Started introducing pants again around that time too.

I get through dilation one day at a time lol. The step down from 4 per day to 3 per day was huge, because it gave me a block of time to work with that I could actually do a thing. You're just about there I think! My next big one is dropping the sitz baths... omg am I looking forward to re-establishing my relationship with baths lol.

I find it still feels like a surgery site though. Just because it's not painful doesn't mean it's not overly sensitive still.

Hey!!! I was with brassard April 25th! I had complications where I went to the ER in Montreal with shock. Once I got home things got better as the months have gone one! Take it slow and listen to your body! I'm a week past two months now I think and I just wore mom jeans and panties for the first time and went for a walk with my friend that was really long! Take it slow!

Also I have had two glorious orgasms listening to my body. But don't push it!!! Everyone is at a different place! 1 month is a long time and lots happens over that time! Just follow the instructions!

Congrats on your surgery! I’m going in for mine sept 19th. I’m have a very serious question. How was the food? Lol