I am a black british trans woman living in the UK searching for a surgeon. I genuinely get overwhelmed thinking about who will conduct my surgery. Sometimes I wish the Nhs wait times were shorter so the onus could be taking off of me. But we’re not like america. I’m looking at a decade on a waiting list. & I feel UK doesn’t give the results I’m looking for. I’m scared to pick the wrong one. I’ve literally had every surgeon on my wish list from Kamol (before I found out he was a butcher) to banks, Supron, Chettawut, RBL, Theerapong, Min Jun, Del Correl. When I say everyone I literally mean EVERYONE. It changes all the time which is worrisome as I don’t know who I’ll end up going to. Even the technique changes all the time between the obvious 3. I was hard set on colon for a while but I’ve gone back to ppt. It’s genuinely stressful and as you can see I flip flop a lot. I’m even more petrified for FFS. I wanted to do DR lee but I dont like his aesthetics anymore. Scared of the facial team and right now Im looking at the DR cardenas but my problem always stays the same. Im scared of choosing the wrong dr and ruining my face or vag. Im terrified. I wish one of you oovely ladies could choose for me but then when is life ever easy. I just wish i was born a a cis girl. help :(
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