Rumer has doubled down on fake reviews

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u/Active_Mango_8857
Tue Feb 6 23:38:34 2024 UTC
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(23 comments)

This beautiful gem appeared week. Let's dissect it according to the guide and exposé on how to spot Rumer's fake reviews. There is also an active call to report Dr. Rumer to the FTC.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/18sppxz/its_time_to_report_dr_kathy_rumer_to_the_ftc/

https://preview.redd.it/4usvfvaiu1hc1.png?width=669&format=png&auto=webp&s=88a183ac7046b24f9845ebf45a33a5539a7d1d3d

The following tropes are present in this review (copy and pasted from the guide)

* " My patient coordinator " usually followed by " answered all of my questions " or a story that is so outlandish that it gives the patient coordinator an insane amount of praise. "IE: My patient coordinator is so awesome that they saved the Earth from the asteroid and invited me to the Rumer family dinner! " In addition the patient coordinator is almost always name dropped. The "hero's of humanity" include, Gina, Terry, Jen and Dawn. While the word "patient coordinator" isn't used and the questions weren't answered this time around. The patient coordinators are however name dropped (ALL CAPS!) and given some next level masturbatory treatment with some of the worst grammar I have ever seen.

* First time google reviewer. Sometimes though they will have 2 other reviews in random locations all over PA or Jersey. Yup....

* "Would recommend" Usually comes at the end. 1000% percent no hesitant (six exclamation marks)

I would like to propose to the mods of this subreddit and every other surgery reddit that all "glowing reviews" of Rumer should be immediately flagged and deleted. Even if its a legit patient. Between her blatant dishonesty and astroturfing and her attempt to silence her own patients using right wing lawyers and an anti LGBTQ judge. (See below) Rumer has lost the right to conduct business on our grounds.

Want me to shut up about Dr. Rumer? I want to shut up but unfortunately that's not an option when Rumer is still roping in unfortunate souls through her astroturfing of Google and for those who are unaware of the "invaluable service" Dr. Kathy Rumer has provided the trans community. Here is a list.

Dr. Kathy Rumer’s atrocities, dishonesty, and disregard for the safety and well being of her patients include but are not limited to:

Dr. Rumer attempts to silence two of her low income trans patients through a SLAPP suit. Rumer used a right-wing affiliated transphobic legal team and brought the case before an anti-LGBTQ Trump appointed judge: https://www.outfrontmagazine.com/dr-kathy-rumer-accused-of-abusing-transgender-patients/

Rumer on record threatening journalists and doctors with her right-wing lawyer: https://i.redd.it/0f3j1bwaiim91.png

Rumer’s staff ignore the patient's chart, prescribe medication which could be fatal to the patient: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOppmz3vQbI&t=366s

Rumer botches FTM patient, Rumer’s staff frequently misgendered the patient: https://i.imgur.com/xjb0ogd.png

Rumer denies patient surgical follow up care because of negative review (transcript at bottom of page): https://www.realself.com/review/vaginoplasty-disfigured-dilate-saggy-droopy

Rumer ghosts patient after major complication, later instructs patient to cut off dangling labia with scissors: https://jezebel.com/when-surgeons-fail-their-trans-patients-1844774990

Rumer casually admits to going through patients' medical records in order to witch hunt her detractors and labels her own patients as “transphobic trolls:” https://i.ibb.co/8cxhMsR/transphobictrolls.jpg

Dr. Rumer admits to dangerous false advertising in court regarding hair regrowth: https://i.redd.it/qwgk4qhc15l91.png

Dr. Rumer’s practice caught posing as patients and posting fake Google, Reddit, and Yelp reviews: https://shorturl.at/ryAMV & https://i.imgur.com/4SJVf2M.png

Rumer’s use of misleading stock photos on her website to promote her work: https://i.ibb.co/8z8tBmZ/Stockphotos.jpg

Rumer’s blatant transphobia in advertising MTF facial feminization surgery. (using a stock photo of a male identified androgynous model): https://i.redd.it/1fiv2hkx05l91.jpg

Surgeon Jess Ting speaks out against Dr. Rumer’s botched surgical outcomes: https://i.redd.it/rjxwmeoui5l91.jpg

Dr. Rumer’s Medical Malpractice Lawsuits

Thompson V Rumer

https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/7820076/thompson-v-rumer/

Coley V Rumer

https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/6567434/coley-v-rumer/

Minto V Rumer

https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/7361522/minto-v-rumer/

Valentino V Rumer

https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/7823455/valentino-v-rumer/

Petition calling for Dr. Rumer’s Resignation

Change.org (Anyone can sign anonymously)

https://chng.it/nzxTzH8f

all 23 comments



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u/Clean-Bird3449
Wed Feb 7 02:02:08 2024 UTC
(14 children)

When I was on PA medicade looking for bottom surgery they told me Rumer and mt saini were the only surgeon sites that they paid for.

Mt saini is legit but I couldn't stop laughing at the Rumer one.

The transcare service person had no idea why I had such a reaction.

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OP
Wed Feb 7 03:27:09 2024 UTC
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(11 children)

PA Medicaid covers in NYC surgeons? asking because I want to be able to recommend to all my Philly peeps to go to Bluebond.

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Wed Feb 7 03:52:51 2024 UTC
(1 child)

I don't know about PA Medicaid, but Bluebond is at NYU Langone. Avanessian, Ting, and Horesh are at Mt Sinai.

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OP
Wed Feb 7 03:57:37 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Whoops thank you, got them both mixed up.

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u/Xanny
Wed Feb 7 04:25:43 2024 UTC
(7 children)

The problem with people in Philly is they are geographically near enough Rumer they are going to try to make you go to her. Sinai is only an option on PA medicaid for those more than 50 miles away from Rumers hospital.

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OP
Wed Feb 7 08:27:53 2024 UTC
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(3 children)

We have a solid ground firewall in Philly against Rumer though. Mazzoni has silently blacklisted her, they no longer list her in their surgeons directory or let her attend the annual trans health conference. On top of that Everyone from the William Way Center to every trans support group was very supportive to our cause and let us distribute our flyers. Coordinators of said groups actively warn people against going to Rumer. We spread the flyers around every major university from Drexel, UPenn, to Temple. We have also been getting therapists in the area to blacklist her. They won't write a letter if the patient is planning on going to Rumer and will actively warn said patients. We have also expanded into Delaware. Christiana was very supportive and will actively discourage patients from going to Rumer.

I also want to mention that a good number of Mazzoni employees past and present signed our petition against Rumer. Anyone can sign this petition and it has gone a long way in getting organizations and therapists to drop their support for Rumer.

With this said. Rumer has been having to prey on people in rural areas and out of state. We took Philly away from Dr. Rumer.

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Wed Feb 7 12:49:23 2024 UTC
(1 child)

I'm glad to hear Mazzoni is on board and making sure more people don't get hurt.

Do you know if there's other platforms that would be willing to join? I know she's plastered on the front page of the main top surgery resource website.

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OP
Wed Feb 7 16:42:24 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I'm down to stage a campaign to get her pulled from that. The trick is flooding their inbox enmasse with community support. We will have to organize this.

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Thu Feb 8 00:43:08 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Whoa that's fantastic to hear 🥰

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Wed Feb 7 04:53:46 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Oh? Well now i have a lot of homework on my hands. Thanks!

3
Wed Feb 7 23:41:58 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Not true! Katherine Rose is at main line in bryn mawr. She takes medicaid and other insurance. Shes excellent.

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Fri Feb 16 00:43:18 2024 UTC
(0 children)

What about temple University? They are much better than rumer.

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Wed Feb 7 04:20:39 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Yeah apparently they do and there's one in Philly since then.

I was to big for mt.saini so they were off the table for me. PA medicaid in general is pretty awesome. They just couldn't help me with bottom surgery so I went ACA and went to Ramineni in DC as he he had no issue with my size.

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Wed Feb 7 12:45:49 2024 UTC
(1 child)

I remember telling my insurance why Rumer was an unacceptable option after I got my first denial letter, and the person I spoke to over the phone was stunned since they had no idea any of that was going on.

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Wed Feb 7 16:39:26 2024 UTC
(0 children)

This is what needs to happen. Any insurance company working with her needs to be made aware. And what OP wrote was a beautiful example of what they need to see.

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u/LunaConflux
Wed Feb 7 02:56:16 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I would 10000% percent no hesitant!!!!!!!!

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u/Monado_trap
Wed Feb 7 06:52:59 2024 UTC
(1 child)

Rumer the bucther

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Wed Feb 7 11:53:07 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Ardmore’s Finest.

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u/dollsteak-testmeat
Wed Feb 7 01:36:45 2024 UTC
(7 children)

I agree that even genuine positive reviews should be removed from the sub. It’s fantastic if someone did actually have a good experience with her but it’s irresponsible to recommend this doctor to anyone.

Wed Feb 7 03:07:14 2024 UTC
(6 children)

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Wed Feb 7 03:33:54 2024 UTC
(3 children)

She botches most of her patients just because some people get good results does not mean she should be promoted in any way

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OP
Wed Feb 7 03:48:07 2024 UTC
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(0 children)

Yep. And the fact that she held a stranglehold of fear over the trans community where patients and other surgeons were too terrified to speak out against her fearing litigation. When she followed through with one of her threats and collaborated with right wingers to terrorize two of her own patients she stopped being a trans ally and more of a tyrant.

She worked with the same fucking people who are actively trying to roll back our rights to preserve her image and her cashflow. There is absolutely no coming back from that morally. What she did was indefensible.

This medical grifter doesn't belong in our spaces and since WPATH and our medical system won't hold her accountable, we need to make sure she is banished from our communities. We can only beat her through a war of attrition and deprive her of as many patients as possible.

Thu Feb 8 15:10:55 2024 UTC
(1 child)

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Thu Feb 8 16:16:11 2024 UTC
(0 children)

What exactly am I not understanding? People post good and bad things about their surgeons all the time on here

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OP
Wed Feb 7 03:30:20 2024 UTC
(1 child)

Too bad, I'm going to propose it anyway. Her practice cannot be allowed to thrive much less exist.