
Holy shit I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m going to Marano for phallo and he’s been great to me but I’ve been wondering how he was with mtf patients. I’m really shocked he did these things.
I'm shocked too, I saw that he was actively making TikToks and thought some of the opinions he was sharing about trans people were fantastic. I didn't consider that he would be so immediately spiteful when he saw I was non-comforming
For as supportive as he is, he’s still cis. They just don’t understand. It really sucks that he behaves this way to gnc patients. I didn’t consider that being binary and typically masculine would give me a way different experience with doctors before now.
I know! I remember hearing of issues nonbinary and gnc people would have in the past, but I assumed that was in the past. I've only starting presenting myself as a butch for about half a year or so after being a feminine woman for over two years
Do you have a link to this surgeon?
He’s not in the wiki, which is risky
https://old.reddit.com/r/TransSurgeriesWiki/wiki/srs/usa
Use a web browser to view that, it a reddit app.
Yes
https://www.ecaplasticsurgery.com/providers/dr-drew-marano/
https://www.transhealthcare.org/drew-marano/
He operates under Dr Jonathan Keith in New York City who is on the list I believe.
Thank you
As I understand, you shouldn't trust anyone who will recommend just laser, that can mean they haven't done vaginoplasty long enough to realize hair can and will come back after @ 10yrs.
So what happens if I already had laser on that area? I haven’t had srs yet.
That's fine, but also get electrolysis. It is the ONLY FDA approved permanent hair removal.
I know I really should but i’m so anxious for electrolysis there. Did you have it done?
I'm not the best to ask this 😂
I have my own machine, I crouched like golem and zapped my precious. No lidocaine or painkillers, just straight go. Sometimes, even after drinking coffee
an at home machine or like an actual industry machine? I’ve been thinking about buying one honestly from how much I spend on laser 😭
I went all in and bought an actual machine.
I knew I would spend less in the long run because I'm a stay at home mom, and I would never be able to afford to do as many sessions as necessary and I don't trust people and firmly believe electrolygists want repeat business.
I taught myself through online instruction and the actual electrolygist materials. But I'll tell you it isn't easy and sometimes getting the angle is really hard. On the plus side, I can do 4+ hour sessions if I want, and I can hit trouble hairs that show up later on my upper lip.
It takes time and dedication, I've decided it's gonna be my career now 😊 but it can be worth it. Texaselectrolysissupply.com if you're willing.
cool! Which device did you buy? It looks like their cheaper option is around 550.. I’m very curious about this because I’m a couple thousand into hair removal and can tell i’m going to need upkeep.
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I saw he had good results. Cis like. That said he is fresh so very Very much ymmv
I thought the results were great and that's a major reason I was bummed out
He is, but Keith's reviews are a bit worrying.
Don't place any trust in that transhealthcare site, they are not acting in the interests of the trans community.
There's also have an archive for vaginoplasty results on the internet but I can't figure out which results correspond to which surgeon
NSFW: https://www.ecaplasticsurgery.com/before-after-gallery/vaginoplasty/6225/?tid=134/#gallnav-anchor
There are covert transphobes abound, and you're better off not getting surgery with someone like that. You never know what kind of hack job they'd be willing to do if they don't want you to appear cis there.
They sound like transmedicalists/terfs if they judge you not being trans/feminine enough in your appearance.
Exactly. They would block an NB from their choices from not leaning enough one way or another.
I have never read anything positive about that doctor tbh, every time someone posts something regarding him it’s usually something bad :/
Wait really? I haven't been able to find anything on him. Thanks for the heads up too
Where have you seen those posts? I haven’t been able to find much about him
I think Dr Keith works with a new urologist I saw Dr Patel for my consult
I’m so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like an awful experience is so unprofessional.
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Girl why you posting this 4chan lingo on this sub. Different subs different rubs. Don’t use that lingo here and please be respectful. Don’t go off course on unhelpful tangents like these. We all suffer on our own path to reaching our goals. Don’t harass someone because of your situation.
I'm genuinely wondering.. What the hell could they have possibly said that got so many downvotes 😭
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You and your jealousy and negativity is helpful to NO ONE. If anything, be happy for them and their journey and that they have the opportunity to be who they are asap.
I had to run away to start HRT and was only able to get as far as I have with getting a consultation because I'm going to be a lawyer in the future and want to understand and polish the process for other trans people. It's a good community here and I'm sure you'll find the support you need, especially as things continue to get better for us through our political action.
Stay strong, don't show them fear or weakness. We'll all get through this together, we just have to continue to show what we're capable of when we're trifled with
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