Dr Drew Marano Vaginoplasty Consultation Bad Experience

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u/Either_System_2352
Mon Mar 11 22:07:42 2024 UTC
(45 comments)

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u/dollsteak-testmeat
Tue Mar 12 20:39:55 2024 UTC
(3 children)

Holy shit I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m going to Marano for phallo and he’s been great to me but I’ve been wondering how he was with mtf patients. I’m really shocked he did these things.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 21:12:26 2024 UTC
(2 children)

I'm shocked too, I saw that he was actively making TikToks and thought some of the opinions he was sharing about trans people were fantastic. I didn't consider that he would be so immediately spiteful when he saw I was non-comforming

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Tue Mar 12 21:29:53 2024 UTC
(1 child)

For as supportive as he is, he’s still cis. They just don’t understand. It really sucks that he behaves this way to gnc patients. I didn’t consider that being binary and typically masculine would give me a way different experience with doctors before now.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 21:32:56 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I know! I remember hearing of issues nonbinary and gnc people would have in the past, but I assumed that was in the past. I've only starting presenting myself as a butch for about half a year or so after being a feminine woman for over two years

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u/HiddenStill
Tue Mar 12 06:04:31 2024 UTC
(17 children)

Do you have a link to this surgeon?

He’s not in the wiki, which is risky

https://old.reddit.com/r/TransSurgeriesWiki/wiki/srs/usa

Use a web browser to view that, it a reddit app.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 11:54:26 2024 UTC
(15 children)

Yes

https://www.ecaplasticsurgery.com/providers/dr-drew-marano/

https://www.transhealthcare.org/drew-marano/

He operates under Dr Jonathan Keith in New York City who is on the list I believe.

Thank you

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Tue Mar 12 16:25:53 2024 UTC
(11 children)

As I understand, you shouldn't trust anyone who will recommend just laser, that can mean they haven't done vaginoplasty long enough to realize hair can and will come back after @ 10yrs.

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Tue Mar 12 21:45:58 2024 UTC
(10 children)

So what happens if I already had laser on that area? I haven’t had srs yet.

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Tue Mar 12 21:50:01 2024 UTC
(9 children)

That's fine, but also get electrolysis. It is the ONLY FDA approved permanent hair removal.

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Tue Mar 12 21:54:40 2024 UTC
(8 children)

I know I really should but i’m so anxious for electrolysis there. Did you have it done?

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Tue Mar 12 21:56:43 2024 UTC
(7 children)

I'm not the best to ask this 😂

I have my own machine, I crouched like golem and zapped my precious. No lidocaine or painkillers, just straight go. Sometimes, even after drinking coffee

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Tue Mar 12 21:57:46 2024 UTC
(6 children)

an at home machine or like an actual industry machine? I’ve been thinking about buying one honestly from how much I spend on laser 😭

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Tue Mar 12 22:08:14 2024 UTC
(5 children)

I went all in and bought an actual machine.

I knew I would spend less in the long run because I'm a stay at home mom, and I would never be able to afford to do as many sessions as necessary and I don't trust people and firmly believe electrolygists want repeat business.

I taught myself through online instruction and the actual electrolygist materials. But I'll tell you it isn't easy and sometimes getting the angle is really hard. On the plus side, I can do 4+ hour sessions if I want, and I can hit trouble hairs that show up later on my upper lip.

It takes time and dedication, I've decided it's gonna be my career now 😊 but it can be worth it. Texaselectrolysissupply.com if you're willing.

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Tue Mar 12 23:17:23 2024 UTC
(4 children)

cool! Which device did you buy? It looks like their cheaper option is around 550.. I’m very curious about this because I’m a couple thousand into hair removal and can tell i’m going to need upkeep.

child comments hidden

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Tue Mar 12 18:43:03 2024 UTC
(1 child)

I saw he had good results. Cis like. That said he is fresh so very Very much ymmv

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OP
Tue Mar 12 21:19:13 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I thought the results were great and that's a major reason I was bummed out

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Tue Mar 12 12:22:09 2024 UTC
(0 children)

He is, but Keith's reviews are a bit worrying.

Don't place any trust in that transhealthcare site, they are not acting in the interests of the trans community.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 11:58:04 2024 UTC
(0 children)

There's also have an archive for vaginoplasty results on the internet but I can't figure out which results correspond to which surgeon

NSFW: https://www.ecaplasticsurgery.com/before-after-gallery/vaginoplasty/6225/?tid=134/#gallnav-anchor

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u/LadyJade8
Tue Mar 12 16:15:33 2024 UTC
(2 children)

There are covert transphobes abound, and you're better off not getting surgery with someone like that. You never know what kind of hack job they'd be willing to do if they don't want you to appear cis there.

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Tue Mar 12 17:11:11 2024 UTC
(1 child)

They sound like transmedicalists/terfs if they judge you not being trans/feminine enough in your appearance.

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Tue Mar 12 17:59:32 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Exactly. They would block an NB from their choices from not leaning enough one way or another.

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u/cyanideion
Tue Mar 12 15:04:53 2024 UTC
(2 children)

I have never read anything positive about that doctor tbh, every time someone posts something regarding him it’s usually something bad :/

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OP
Tue Mar 12 15:06:37 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Wait really? I haven't been able to find anything on him. Thanks for the heads up too

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Tue Mar 12 20:43:26 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Where have you seen those posts? I haven’t been able to find much about him

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u/Either_System_2352
OP
Wed Mar 13 22:26:46 2024 UTC
(0 children)
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u/AnalAndCookies
Sun Oct 13 03:41:57 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I think Dr Keith works with a new urologist I saw Dr Patel for my consult

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u/Lewinmodified
Tue Mar 12 13:25:32 2024 UTC
(0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like an awful experience is so unprofessional.

u/[deleted]
Tue Mar 12 14:59:59 2024 UTC
(11 children)

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Tue Mar 12 15:52:11 2024 UTC
(2 children)

Girl why you posting this 4chan lingo on this sub. Different subs different rubs. Don’t use that lingo here and please be respectful. Don’t go off course on unhelpful tangents like these. We all suffer on our own path to reaching our goals. Don’t harass someone because of your situation.

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Tue Mar 12 19:03:30 2024 UTC
(1 child)

I'm genuinely wondering.. What the hell could they have possibly said that got so many downvotes 😭

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Tue Mar 12 17:14:56 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Removed. Rule 1.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 15:05:37 2024 UTC
(6 children)

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Tue Mar 12 15:16:55 2024 UTC
(5 children)

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Tue Mar 12 16:28:51 2024 UTC
(1 child)

You and your jealousy and negativity is helpful to NO ONE. If anything, be happy for them and their journey and that they have the opportunity to be who they are asap.

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OP
Tue Mar 12 15:29:19 2024 UTC
(2 children)

I had to run away to start HRT and was only able to get as far as I have with getting a consultation because I'm going to be a lawyer in the future and want to understand and polish the process for other trans people. It's a good community here and I'm sure you'll find the support you need, especially as things continue to get better for us through our political action.

Stay strong, don't show them fear or weakness. We'll all get through this together, we just have to continue to show what we're capable of when we're trifled with

Tue Mar 12 15:34:33 2024 UTC
(1 child)

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Tue Mar 12 17:09:05 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Removed. Rule 1.