Soul Source problems

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u/ThrowawaySutinGirl
Sun Apr 28 03:25:55 2024 UTC
(2 comments)

Hi again, when I was at PAI I got two dilators, size 1 and 2. I was told to go with soul source if I wanted the whole set of sizing, but there’s an issue…

The soul source dilators are curved. The PAI ones are not. I’ve been having horrible issues getting the curved end in. When I start to push it in, it feels like it wants to twist (I was told I’m supposed to have the curve pointing up), and I can’t get it in far AT ALL. This is with the size 1 dilator.

I worry that I’m gonna tear something by forcing it in, but I know I’m going to have to use them for sizes 3 and 4, but I don’t know what to do. I don’t even get how to insert it properly

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u/[deleted]
Sun Apr 28 22:21:20 2024 UTC
(1 child)

Def curve up, and some slight twisting (or perhaps rocking is a better word) can actually be really helpful to get the tip through the hole in your pelvic floor muscle. Don't force, massage. Pull out a bit and try to go in again. This helps to draw in more lube. Whatever you put on the tip, gets wiped off by the time you're just a couple inches in and it gets sticky and painful. Massaging it in and out helps redistribute the slippery.

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OP
Sun Apr 28 23:14:12 2024 UTC
(0 children)

Hmm

The straight one just goes in so much easier. Maybe I need to find a set of straight dilators