Will be three months on the 20th. aesthetics wise , it's still a little swollen but it looks 100% natural , very defined labia majora and minora, and I was circumcised.
im mostly painfree and sitting is easy but I still use the donut on hard surfaces. discharge isn't alot , only sometimes after dilation a blob comes out. after srs i didn't notice much of a smell but after 2 months or so I started noticing it. it smells bad , not like what I imagined it to smell, because it's colon vaginoplasty I expected something like poo (how silly), but it smells nothing like that even though it's so bad. It doesn't smell that strong though , the other day I got a whiff of it because I just took out the last dilator (normally the discharge comes like 30 mins later for me) and as I sat up it came out lol. I don't find the discharge to be that inconvenient because I just make sure I always wear liners or a pad and I don't really feel when it comes out.
I tried masturbating about 5 times , orgasmed two out of those 5. first time there was contractions there and I assumed that was the orgasm so I was kinda let down and not actually sure that i had one but when I actually had the orgasm it was amazing. i can see it feeling a bit uncomfortable because it feels like wetting the bed , like there's a waterfall between my legs lol. haven't had sex yet so not sure on this but I think lube might still be needed or it will be uncomfy getting the penis in. from what I've noticed it only starts lubricating by itself when there's something already inside.
dilation is still uncomfy and a bit of a hassle , I don't like it at all. my dilators are really wide and I remember reading that dilators need to be extra wide for colon vaginoplasty. the depth is alot because the dilators almost go in all the way and they're quite long.
my bowel movements are mostly back to normal and I eat like before. sneezing can be painful depending on the position I'm in when I sneeze.
overall I'm extremely happy with the results and would choose my surgeon again if I had to do it from over.
oh I also had VFS and tracheal shave. my voice sounds 100% natural even though I was afraid of CTA, my results are great. it has a bit of a husky quality to it , not a masculine type of husky but a normal feminine type. I was worried before about it sounding high pitched and cartoon like. I was told it will change more over the next few months
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