
I would 100 percent assume you are cis.
I had to do a double take when this came up on my feed. Like what subreddit is this!? Oh.
I feel weird commenting in this context without saying thank you for sharing. It really helps knowing what to expect and such.
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Sorry I didn’t mean to make you feel like I am minimizing your trauma or suffering. Just meant it helps me see some spires in the fog. Good and bad. Thanks again.
Hey don't worry - you couldn't have known unless she mentioned it.
That's the amazing thing about getting it done by a good surgeon.. The whole thing is sort of a controlled demolition (the surgery)...... with a big fence around it (your body's ability to heal). Everyone's got a different "fence" so to speak - of body health and composition... that can withstand different levels of physical trauma.
I've seen friends go thru the same PI vaginoplasty surgery, with the same surgeon as me, within the same year, and everyone's had wildly different recovery paths.. Not because of the surgeons skill..... But just simply because of how they've healed (the fence).. And how well they've taken care of themselves before surgery and afterwards.. It's really such a mixed bag in terms of recovery. I wonder if OP was "botched" in her first vaginoplasty due to the surgeon's negligence, or if she just had a really atypical recovery process. I'm guess it was the latter, because why go to the same surgeon twice after they've botched you? She hasn't shared many details of her story (and doesn't have to).
OP mentioned in a different comment that it was at a Swedish hospital, so there's a good chance she didn't have a whole lot of surgeons to chose from. The options for trans people in public health care systems are often very limited, at least here in the Nordic countries.
After everything you've been through with SRS.. I am just so happy for you..!!! And hope that you are more able than ever to continue finding those moments of peace with your body, mind, and soul (:
Congrats on the gorgeous result!
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Wait, Who did your vaginoplasty and your revision??
Any competent surgeon will perform meticulous follicle scraping to prevent that from ever happening.
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If you're comfortable sharing, could you detail for us what went wrong with the first surgery?
You'd say that, until you find out after the fact that Suporn leaves the hair on the introitus.
This is the main reason why I didn't go to suporn for mine.
Yeah, I've had so many issues since getting SRS it almost doesn't feel worth it.
I'm still glad I have it though, I just wish it looked a bit better and didn't have that fucking hair.
I'm sorry :(
Maybe having a revision just specifically for follicle scraping? They can do that while you're asleep.
They just say that I need to get electrolysis, not sure how you get so deep in to do that without maybe a speculum though. If they had just said on the website I would have had it all lasered off, but instead they specifically said don't get laser on the website and hair removal was unnecessary.
Wow, who did your revision?
holy crap it looks amazing. congratulations!!
You're a hell of a woman. I might have slit my wrists after the way r/mtf treated you post op.
Congratulations. I'm at the bottom rn emotionally, thank you for showing me strength
wtf did they do :((
Wait what happened???
Gaslighting her and then banned her after venting about her first surgery
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I say this with no disrespect to anyone, but one sub is about transition fantasy, one is about the reality.
I think we're fortunate to have a sub where we understand how hard and sometimes ugly it gets for us. Not just surgically, but the mental and emotional aspects as well.
Also, your top surgery turned out very well too. I hope you're feeling better than a year ago.
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Same, the guys I'm considering now aren't at the level pre op. But I've been mostly alone for over a year
But I have ba next month. Can I ask what size you got?
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You're absolutely right on everything. Those bra calculators are garbage. At best they're an approximation for a cis woman, and even further off for us.
I wish I were more narrow. I'm more like an 85B now. Implant width will be 14-15, 550ish, medium plus profile (you had the same profile?)
I am trying for only a cup and a half bigger, but due to my chest that will be 2x your implant volume. I didn't know you were that much more slender. Thanks for the feedback, and congrats again :)
Looks good! Btw was the surgeon good? Ive seen the comments and im conflicted, looking into surgeons myself, thanks!
I'm so happy for you I wanna hug you. Do you still have the shark?
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Shark!! 😍
it looks perfect
That looks amazing, hope you get to put it to good use, btw suuper jealous.
great results
I'm sorry it's been so hard for you lately ❤️
In this picture obviously yours looks really great!!! I need to get a revision too for a few reasons.
Thanks for posting :) I'm sorry for the way this website is a horrible trash fire. (Also humanity is a horrible trash fire)
I do love the results, looking very good. Congrats, sis 👏🏼
Looks fantastic!!!
Happy to hear it. How are you feeling now? It looks like you've been in a dark place recently.
Looks like you’ve never had a penis in the first place. So we’ll done!
Awesome job ,flawless
I've been following you for a while, and I'm glad the revision went well: I'm so happy for you, and your are quite beautiful and passing!
I was looking for your profile out of some old screenshot, I'm glad you're alive and well, take care
Is it still full of hair?
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You can find posts with pictures in this sub's wiki 😊
cute!
It came out well and I think you should be very happy with the final results
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