Hi everyone.
I'm post op srs for 2 months.Today I tried... Well.. to masturbate and everything was fine, i even got an orgasm, it was really great, however...
I kinda... cum. I got some discharge right after it. Probably prostatic fluid? It was transparent without any smell.
I don't know what happened. And now i feel really dysphoric... If I actually cum after orgasm like a male... Im a f*cking mutant
Its normal and women can leak fluid from their glands as well when excited. Congrats on your surgery and orgasm.
I'm afab, but I can cum like that w my vagina. I think it's normal for cis women, you just never see it in porn because porn is about men and not pleasing women.
Also afab, can confirm. Super normal!
Can also confirm, afab and have had this my whole life. It’s kinda thick but clear.
It may be from the Cowper's glands, these are typically left in during MTF GRS and can still give some lubrication. X
Hey, sorry if this comes across as rude (not trying to, honest), but think of it like this: females lubricate when they're aroused and it can either be watery or "slimy."
It can also be transparent or creamy (I have no explanation as to why but it's normal and I've done it and am still a virgin with no STDs).
It also has no smell--the only exception is if there's a bacterial infection.
After orgasming, it all just comes out naturally because the vagina is self-cleaning and it's just like "Okay, that was fun. I'm done now, time to yeet this mess." Sounds like that was yours too.
So, really. You're all set. Just be careful when having fun, two months doesn't sound like a long enough recovery time for a major surgery. ✌️✌️
This is normal for women (cis or trans). Different women have different amount and type of fluid, but you're not unusual in this.
Hey!! While I understand the dysphoria this actually happens to afab people and is perfectly normal!!
Hi
I'm postop now for 2.5 years. Just after my SRS I had the ability to "choose" between kind of male orgasm including the ejaculation of some prostatic fluids or a female one. I had the same strong feelings of dysphoria when it was the male version witch happens when there was visual stimulation and a hard way of rubbing. So aware of that I followed most of the time the female path, softly build up and without visual sexual context. That way I have always multiple orgasms. I started also using progesteron-cream after reading that this can reduce the prostate. Maybe you can ask your endo about it. I noticed that after a year I could again enjoy visual stimulation and intenser sex without those terrible ejaculations. The " male" version disappeared.
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