Still tender, and a bit raw inside. But she's healing well. Clit really sensitive, and sensation in general growing stronger. This is both good and bad, as it means things that were numb are sore. Worst sensation recently has been a feeling of erection. Which produces a tight, burning/ stinging just behind my clit. Research indicates this is the erectile stump left behind, and it will heal/ quit hurting in time. I'd be mad too if I were severely shortened and cauterized...
Incontinence is a problem for me, and doc says that may take weeks to months to resolve.
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I am using adult diapers, yes. Partially for drainage/discharge. But in general, it's getting better.
You look great! I didn't look that great after 2 months.
Still, Incontinence is an uncommon complication. Although discharge is common. Hope your incontinence resolves quickly.
I didn't know it was uncommon, :o And thanks, Dr. Freet is extremely skilled. I attribute most of this to him.
Crap, I’ve got that problem pre-op. I get like, 60 seconds to make it to the toilet and often can’t keep my underwear dry. The peepee doctors can’t figure me out either. Did you notice diapers/pads causing any issues with healing or infection? I have a consult in a couple weeks and I need to brave-up to ask that question.
No, diapers and pads, as long as they're changed frequently, don't cause issues.
I posted a shopping list a few weeks back. You may want to have a look
Overall? I love her so much. Every time I see her, I still can't believe she's mine.
Reffering to your newly assembled vag with she/her pronouns just hits differently.
I absolutely love it.
:3 Aww, thanks. I just, that's how I think of her.
I remembered suddenly why I do that. It was a pre op habit, making my bits feel more feminine made me feel better. Now it's just. She's a her.
Looking great!! Thanks for being so thorough with updates!! I wish you well with the rest of the recovery!!
That looks good. Congrats😀 And did you mean Freet Daniel
The Doctor in Houston?
Daniel Freet, yes
If you have any questions about him, I've made a couple posts about my experience. And I'm open to dms
I had a consultation with him, he seems really nice. I am giving him serious consideration. I am so glad you are happy with him.
He's awesome. Super warm and gentle, and skilled af
Yeah, I am happy to hear that. I was just wondering bc he isn't one of the “big names” surgeon.
Oh, another reason I love him. He sedates youwhile taking the packing and drains out.
Aww
He said most doctors don't... but he said there was no reason to inflict unnecessary pain on someone, when the surgery is painful enough.
I like the “give me all the drugs” approach
These results are amazing!!! She’s so beautiful 🥺
Thanks
I think you're very brave, but from what I see so far I'm sure you'll feel satisfied with the results, I'm sorry I didn't change when I was younger, I now live with regrets 😅 😢
Thanks. I'm not sure how brave I am, but I want to be alive now, so that's something :)
She's getting a check up tomorrow with the doctor. :) Hoping all is good news.
She's happy and healthy, and my next visit will be in May. Healed well enough I can take short, sitting baths (15 minutes maximum) which help some of the normal slough break off. Combine the warm bath with Icing after and taking pain meds before really soothed a lot of pain Vagina sensation is doing well. I felt the speculum this time! My clit has good sensation that will keep getting better too as the tissue moistens and softens.
Sorry if my comments are harder to read sometimes. When I'm on my phone and tired, my brain can't type properly
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