It seems like all surgeons are trying to push more stuff on the patients than the patients originally ask for, and it seems like surgeons are first and foremost a business, and not a medical care thing. Its really scary and depressing.
edit: i want to directly ask him about that patient and their bad experience, but I don't want him to hate me. See how difficult this sorta thing is? I don't want to offend the guy that might be cutting my face open, and yet I want to know his side and everything.
even though I'm MTF, this post felt like a rude awakening https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/ep86uv/im_the_first_ever_case_of_ftm_facial/ i had been noticing how so many posts talk about how he suggests more things for his patients to get whether lip lifts or otherwise, and I'm the type of person that doesn't want anything foreign added to my face (fillers/etc, even metal plates on the forehead scare me, yet they seem to be the only option. i've only heard of one surgeon doing dissolvable screws for the forehead and i forget which one. and even that is scary).
why does it have to be this way :'(
why can't there be any surgeons out there simply for the transgender healthcare, not as a capitalist enterprise, out there with no bad patient experiences and no bad results. Those that don't spend money advertising their image, and only publicizing the best results. Human bias and all. Is that really too much to ask?
edit: if you're downvoting me how are you not just shilling for surgeons? Here's a result from keojampa despite previously hearing they deliver consistently excellent results. I'm SORRY for having GENUINE anxieties about these things (yes i get scared after seeing 1 bad experience/result), downvoting me for that is rude as heck. I'm not trying to slander them, I'm concerned for my own stupid face, my bad. https://www.reddit.com/r/BotchedSurgeryVictims/comments/k7yjae/keojampa_botched_my_chin_why_does_it_even_look/
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