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u/[deleted]
Sat Aug 21 23:09:26 2021 UTC
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u/cool_hand_legolas
Sat Aug 21 23:27:34 2021 UTC
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These are weekly progress pics from my FFS on July 8th with deschamps-braly. I had forehead work (browridge, orbital, eyebrow raise, hairline advancement), rhinoplasty, chin + jaw (emphasis on chin with jaw adjusted to meet the new chin + small removal at the corner of the jaw by my ear), and trachea shave. I am a big girl, and I'm Jewish. I was explicit that I wanted my face to match my body, my ethnicity, and my family. I didn't want a small nose / chin / forehead -- I just wanted to look like the girl version of myself.

Some milestones:

  • ~ 2 weeks: even though i still look kinda busted, i feel an instant change from the forehead work. The swelling here is minimal, and I can go into the world and feel like this alone is getting me gendered correctly. I'm also starting to see myself in the mirror, and my energy is coming back. there is still SO much swelling around my nose, mouth, and chin/jaw, which is a bit distressing.
  • ~ 4 weeks: i'm starting to feel pretty! i've noticed that my face is doing a lot of work for me. as long as i wear an outfit that keeps up, i am turning heads in a positive way (i mean, im 6'1 with legs so i generally attract attention anyway). i feel like my expectations and pressure around my shoulders or voice have gone down. weirdly enough, i get really self conscious about my remaining facial hair (this hasnt gone away yet). the swelling under my chin has gone down finally, and i feel like i dont have a permanent double chin anymore. my nose swelling has gone down a bit unevenly at this point, and i get a bit scared about still having a bump. my cheeks have finally come back, and i can see my cheek bones again! this gave me a lot of confidence as well.
  • ~ 6 weeks: i am hot AF. im eating real food, and texting my exes to make them jealous. the alignment in my gender from my FFS has spread, and i think i am basically the hottest girl on earth. any swelling remaining is really not that noticeable, even if my nose/chin/jaw are still vaguely lumpy. the things that bothered me about my body before barely phase me. i am not covering up my hairline scar inside or at night (without the bumps it's really not noticeable anymore), and i'm not taping my nose either. which means that i dont have to wonder if people can tell "i got a nose job".

i know i have a ton of healing left to do, but at this point im feeling SO positive. i have no clue how all the swelling will go down, but the improvement to my emotional wellbeing is huge and significant. i think it will only get better. i feel way better about participating socially, without the inside dysphoria firing off in the background constantly. people comment that im friendly and nice, and i feel like social effort is just easier.

happy to chat more if anyone has any questions about individual procedures, the lead up or recovery, or whatever.

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Sun Aug 22 09:07:24 2021 UTC
(1 child)

I love this. Do you feel you reached your goals? You feminized very smoothly. You look like a cis-sister version of your before picture. I had FFS with Cardenas in 2016. Are you seeing benefits yet like blending in while you're out in public? How are you feeling about your surgeon choice?

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Mon Aug 23 00:19:29 2021 UTC
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Oh congrats! I feel like I blend in a bit with cis people, but that was never quite my goal. I’m still quite tall with shoulders, and if anything I now feel more comfortable taking more risks with my style — I like being clocked, and now I can be clocked for reasons I want.

I feel really positively about my surgeon choice. It’s impossible to know how things will turn out, and you kinda just have to go with your gut. I was able to find someone I trusted, and I’m really happy with how it turned out. I couldn’t ask for more.

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Sun Aug 22 02:07:04 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Your quick notes super match how your pictures look. Four weeks plus things really settled into beautiful. So glad things went well!

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u/RobinSilver-MtF
Sat Aug 21 23:49:15 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Your timeline is awesome!! I'm super happy, for you, that you feel so much better!
You look Beautiful! But you already know this! 😁💫

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u/A_Gnu_Gal
Sun Aug 22 00:14:59 2021 UTC
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Beautiful results! I'm jealous! Gorgeous hair too, by the way...

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u/poostring
Sun Aug 22 00:22:02 2021 UTC
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Wow your profile looks especially great now

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u/fzycat
Sun Aug 22 16:28:47 2021 UTC
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It looks like all your hopes were realized, you are still yourself … and you look beautiful!