Worried about the surgeon I chose

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u/[deleted]
Mon Oct 11 01:51:30 2021 UTC
(31 comments)

I have vaginoplasty in a couple months with DR Rumer and I've started hearing really polarized things about her, am I over reacting to a couple isolated bad reviews or should I reconsider my choice?

all 31 comments



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u/sixinthedark
Mon Oct 11 02:00:28 2021 UTC
(8 children)

You should definitely reconsider. I’ve only seen negative information about her

12
Mon Oct 11 02:06:10 2021 UTC
(0 children)

I requested to cancel

4
Mon Oct 11 02:03:00 2021 UTC
(6 children)

Can I cancel and who would you recommend

10
Mon Oct 11 02:05:57 2021 UTC
(1 child)
12
Mon Oct 11 02:07:14 2021 UTC
(0 children)

I cancelled and I also just found that on google and started reading thank you!

5
Mon Oct 11 16:49:15 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Check out McGinn. She's in the same area and is fantastic.

4
Mon Oct 11 02:11:21 2021 UTC
(2 children)

Bluebond is probably the best. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone saying anything negative about their results with her.

Mon Oct 11 02:22:22 2021 UTC
(1 child)

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4
Mon Oct 11 06:04:40 2021 UTC
(0 children)

I’ve seen people talking about bad consults, but what about the results? I don’t recall seeing anything negative about the outcomes.

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u/jlynne58
Mon Oct 11 02:26:50 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Do not let this woman touch you. She has destroyed many women's lives from their own confessions. Whatever you have to do, find someone else...anyone.

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u/Lettucelat
Mon Oct 11 04:04:28 2021 UTC
(2 children)

DON'T GO TO RUMER! DON'T!

please I am begging don't go to her. She is a butcher.

Go instead to dr. Brassard, Dr. Bluebond langer Dr. Marci Bowers, Dr. Suporn, Dr. Heidi Wittenberg

Mon Oct 11 04:51:17 2021 UTC
(1 child)

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1
Tue Oct 19 01:18:31 2021 UTC
(0 children)

I got mine from belanger, my vagina looks beautiful. Mine took 2 hours with no complications, 1.5hours is just what they estimate it will take.

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u/mira-g-
Mon Oct 11 03:32:43 2021 UTC
(0 children)

do not go to the butcher RUMER. vaginas have exploded and prolapsed due to her.

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u/HiddenStill
Mon Oct 11 03:14:56 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Look at these reviews very carefully

https://www.reddit.com/r/TransSurgeriesWiki/wiki/srs/usa#wiki_kathy_lynn_rumer

If you want just one, then this is it. NSFW

http://hannahsimpson.com/Surgery/

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u/Federal-Tension
Mon Oct 11 08:29:30 2021 UTC
(0 children)

She is a butcher. There was one patient recently who didn't listen despite all the warnings and guess what happened? She ended up botched and is partly to blame. When lots of people warn you about a surgeon you should take heed. It's a huge red flag. Avoid these butchers who have the license to ruin futures and take lives. Honestly, I feel like those with power are allowing her to butcher us for amusement.

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u/[deleted]
Mon Oct 11 17:27:35 2021 UTC
(1 child)

I'm an electrologist who occasionally gets new clients for facework after they've had a vaginoplasty. Rumer is the only surgeon where I get 100% consistent surgery regret. A lot of language like "I lost years of my life".

3
Mon Oct 11 17:43:02 2021 UTC
(0 children)

yeah thats what ive read that a lot

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u/[deleted]
Mon Oct 11 03:51:59 2021 UTC
(0 children)

after searching I found Dr. Chris McClung who seems to be a ton more reputable

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u/danaEscott
Mon Oct 11 20:54:07 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Omg. I’m a former victim of hers. Run the Hell away. These past three years have sucked thanks to her. Run run run. The butcher of Ardmore is not for you.

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u/Gedi_knt2
Mon Nov 1 01:54:35 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Please please please, do not go to her! I don't want you to have to live with the same pain I have. Even if it means waiting a few more months it's far better then having to wait years to be fixed.

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u/Barb_B_notReally
Mon Oct 11 15:10:30 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Find ANOTHER.

Dr Rumer is a known problem with a significant percentage botched.

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u/Pizzabandit27
Mon Oct 11 14:21:34 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Rumer was my first choice ! I opted to not to go with her due to the high volume of negative comments .. i ended up going with dr pang with mount sinai in New York , he’s still fairly new but i will say I’m 100% happy with my results and The recovery was honestly really fast I’m only six months out as of tomorrow and I am feeling 100% better already, fell free to check out my profile for results !

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u/jlynne58
Mon Oct 11 02:27:52 2021 UTC
(3 children)

Who is paying for your procedure?

1
Mon Oct 11 02:28:31 2021 UTC
(2 children)

its covered by my insurance

4
Mon Oct 11 02:32:14 2021 UTC
(1 child)

Call your Insurer and ask for a list in Network. They should supply you with options and then you can illicit opinions here from your choices

2
Mon Oct 11 02:32:56 2021 UTC
(0 children)

thanks for the advice!

u/[deleted]
Mon Oct 11 08:49:01 2021 UTC
(5 children)

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Mon Oct 11 12:16:29 2021 UTC
(4 children)

I can barely read that and I appreciate the recommendation but why in russian?

Fri Oct 15 00:02:32 2021 UTC
(2 children)

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1
Fri Oct 15 00:03:26 2021 UTC
(0 children)

verstedt

1
Fri Oct 15 02:05:20 2021 UTC
(0 children)

Removed. Rule 7.

0
Mon Oct 11 15:37:28 2021 UTC
(0 children)

User probably speaks Russian?