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u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 07:31:45 2022 UTC
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u/deadrummer
Wed Jan 5 10:14:52 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I don't think it looks bad.

However, if it bothers you there are surgical options. Ask you doctor about what is possible for you. :)

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u/DrainerNatalie
Wed Jan 5 07:35:22 2022 UTC
(5 children)

Im not really the best vulva evaluator out there but this looks pretty good? Like I would definitely be satisfied with your results. What exactly do you think is wrong?

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Wed Jan 5 07:41:12 2022 UTC
(4 children)

It looks always open n the Form/ Design isn't beautiful. And the clitoris hood is lumpy :/

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Wed Jan 5 08:23:02 2022 UTC
(1 child)

The always open thing is not a big deal it's been known to happen to women who have given birth, and as far as form goes, it's not the most beautiful vagina ever but it still is aestheticly more appealing than plenty of cis vaginas, and besides you could always get a revision which could easily end up looking amazing. Like girl you are being way to down on yourself it looks fine.

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Wed Jan 5 11:15:28 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I echo that, post op vaginoplasty or revision would definitively do .. but still she's looking amazing already 💓

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Fri Jan 7 21:04:00 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Vulvas come in all shapes and sizes. I don't think it looks that bad, but if you're not satisfied with it, there are options as others have said.

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u/user_192837465
Wed Jan 5 07:48:51 2022 UTC
(0 children)

just a heads up to mark this as nsfw

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u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 13:36:22 2022 UTC
(0 children)

... Looks like a vagina to me.

The. 'always open' concern? ... Well, your legs are somewhat open, And you seem to have your legs upwards, which would stretch the vaginal area, causing it to be more open.

This looks swell! I don't see any issues.

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u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 10:11:27 2022 UTC
(0 children)

it doesnt look that bad? like, not "botched" or anything.

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u/NaonakApophis
Wed Jan 5 20:14:51 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I am FTM, so I have a cis vagina and have seen quite a few others and your result looks really good and real, your clitoral hood looks honestly better than mine and very real, you have great symmetry, the anatomical arrangement could be from the Textbook come from, your vaginal entrance looks optically cis. If you are bothered by your weak labia minora, I can only say that one of my cis ex partners didn't have any more pronounced ones either, there are even a number of cis women for whom theirs are too big. Your result is visually successful, if you have a revision then maybe for depth, don't know how it is with you. Perhaps you had a different visual idea, but with this operation, which is complicated, an appearance that looks like Cis is the best optical result, even if it deviates from your own ideas. If you have problems with the function, please try to differentiate them from the optics.

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u/aurorax0
Wed Jan 5 14:13:44 2022 UTC
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(7 children)

Where do those insecurities come from? Do you have any other problems that you have with it:) I read your other posts where u said that you have issues with the smell: Please don‘t use soap or deodorant in that area. Also stop the obsessive cleaning, a vagina is supposed to be moist. You should try a Laktobazillus Kur, if you haven‘t. This might help to build a healthy vaginal flora. Stop douching as well.

I kinda have the impression that you watched way too much porn before before your surgery and now have really really unrealistic expectations of a vagina. So many people have told you before that it looks like a cis vagina. If you wanna talk about it you can message me(I speak German)

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Wed Jan 5 14:38:52 2022 UTC
(3 children)

You are not in r/germantrans :)

Also -trans-lation ^^'

What is the reason for your insecurity? Do you have other issues (with your vagina)?
also because I read in other posts of yours you have trouble with smells: Please don't use soap, deodorant or the like in the genital region. They make it worse. Have you tried "Laktobazillus Kur"* from the pharmacy? It helps build a healthy bacterial environment. Also don't use douches.

* this might be a german thing

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Wed Jan 5 14:39:53 2022 UTC
(2 children)

Sorry ^ OP is German. Thanks for the translation :)

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Wed Jan 5 15:09:46 2022 UTC
(1 child)

Oh, I didn't know OP is German.
Oh well now other perople can read it too. ^^'

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Wed Jan 5 14:53:49 2022 UTC
(2 children)

Rule 7.

English only. I can't moderate in other languages.

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u/aurorax0
Wed Jan 5 14:10:57 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I think you have really really unrealistic expectations of what a vagina is supposed to look like. Always being open is completely normal.

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u/lilacmacchiato
Wed Jan 5 15:11:58 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I see nothing wrong, from an outsider's perspective. As someone who enjoys vulvas/vaginas, I find yours to be lovely

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u/Caniscora
Sun Jan 9 01:00:49 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I'm AFAB and your bits honestly look a ton like mine! I have an "always open" sort of look too and I was self conscious about it for years before I embraced it. Of course, you're entitled to do anything with your own body, and if you want to make changes, feel free. Just know that your bits are totally normal and I'm adding my vote to the "this looks great" box :)

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u/heyImMissErin
Wed Jan 5 16:06:15 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I know our minds can feel different about our bodies than what other people perceive but fwiw if my vaginoplasty turns out close to this one, I’ll be very happy. Each vagina is unique and I think yours looks great. It honestly looks very cis to me (my partner who is AFAB has a vagina that looks similar - especially the clitoris).

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u/NomiBBy
Wed Jan 5 08:03:26 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Please mark nsfw

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u/Hammna
Wed Jan 5 12:00:31 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Looks pretty good 💜

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u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 11:17:42 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I think it looks awesome

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u/Radiant_99
Wed Jan 5 15:40:10 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Why sad? Judging from these pictures it looks fine

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u/suomikim
Wed Jan 5 12:42:34 2022 UTC
(0 children)

looks fine to me... assuming that you're able to pee normally, and that the depth is fine for PiV intercourse, i'd be happy with that result.

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u/erikamcchad
Wed Jan 5 20:15:37 2022 UTC
(0 children)

its a nice coochie youre just struggling to accept it and thats ok

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u/TeaUnusual901
Wed Jan 5 14:18:44 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Please let us know your surgeon too so we can look out for them :)) also i think personally it looks alright.

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u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 15:27:45 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Looks good to me

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u/chrisallison196824
Wed Jan 5 16:15:28 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Dear, all the vulvas are different, talk with your surgeon's

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u/Lokael
Wed Jan 5 16:32:17 2022 UTC
(0 children)

It looks so beautiful.

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u/MotorSuccotash1825
Wed Jan 5 17:25:28 2022 UTC
(0 children)

It’s looks good if your not happy a labiaplasty will fix what you feels looks bad

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u/Chemical-Cat5865
Wed Jan 5 23:47:30 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Tbh I would love to have post-op ... Honestly hun, I think she looks just fine, of course its your body but its not bad at all

u/[deleted]
Wed Jan 5 12:20:22 2022 UTC
(11 children)

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u/M1RR0R
Wed Jan 5 13:40:19 2022 UTC
(8 children)

It is, but how is that relevant here?

Wed Jan 5 13:50:54 2022 UTC
(7 children)

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u/M1RR0R
Wed Jan 5 13:55:32 2022 UTC
(3 children)

"someone else has it worse so you shouldn't fight to have something good for yourself"

Wed Jan 5 13:57:45 2022 UTC
(2 children)

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u/M1RR0R
Wed Jan 5 14:06:25 2022 UTC
(1 child)

I lost 20 iq points reading that

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Wed Jan 5 14:02:35 2022 UTC
(1 child)

A lot of white people have that issue too. It’s almost like poverty effects all races?

What on earth happened to you to make you so angry towards people with lighter pigmentation?

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Wed Jan 5 14:52:03 2022 UTC
(1 child)

Removed. Rule 1.

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u/Freyja_of_the_North
Wed Jan 5 21:57:01 2022 UTC
(0 children)

What surgeon was this?

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u/JulieKaye67
Thu Jan 6 11:05:04 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I don’t see any issues but, it’s your body so understand if you do. I would be very happy with this result.

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u/[deleted]
Thu Jan 6 22:51:29 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Looks amazing