I need help, I feel so lost

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u/[deleted]
Thu Mar 31 10:57:08 2022 UTC
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u/HiddenStill
Thu Mar 31 11:03:07 2022 UTC
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Has anyone actually had ffs with him?

Thu Mar 31 15:52:50 2022 UTC
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Fri Apr 1 14:33:46 2022 UTC
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Sun Apr 10 15:05:10 2022 UTC
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Thanks, I added this to the wiki.

Probably a bit risky choosing him for FFS in normal circumstances, but glad to hear it worked out so well. Given the unusual range of surgeries he does I expect he's far more adventurous than other surgeons and would be a good option for those who need such things.

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u/Laura_Sandra
Fri Apr 1 13:15:58 2022 UTC
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Its up to you ofc ... on HRT there can be a builddown of muscles, which can make for a change in shape. Giving HRT some time first may be recommendable. And here in the first link might be some hints concerning presentation. Many cis people with a triangular shape also have those issues and it may be an idea to look up a few things that people use.

And there is a service called virtualFFS and consulting them in case may be a good idea. They also know surgeons. It may be necessary to discuss with them the kind of approach though. A standard may be a moderate approach. Be aware that with a more aggressive approach results can look more mask like, and less individual.

They could make a few suggestions including a minimal one. More details are here .

And here might be some hints concerning looking for support and there are also resources there concerning looking for a gender therapist in case.

hugs