The average girth of a penis is a little under the width of orange, but talking about all sizes you will find out there some will be thinner and some will be thicker than orange. So for most reaching orange is good enough. Happily gaining width is *way* easier than gaining depth.

My partner was wider than orange so I knew from the start I would need to find some sort of dilators larger than orange to make sex comfortable.

I was able to get to progress from one to the next reaching full depth (a little over 7") on them all. I forget exactly when, but I was regularly dilating with Mystic before I reached 6 months post-op. I did try out a handful of other dilators too, but these were my recommendations.

Sizing up through the Mystic Large most will start running into a need to stretch beyond the vaginal entrance ring. You will have to start stretching urethra tissue and labia minora tissue so I would have a hard time recommending anyone going beyond 2 1/4" in width (based upon measurements mentioned in most surgical papers I read). Being fisted is something else, but probably not worth the extra effort and risks of stretching this other delicate tissue.

While I didn't get it, as mentioned in my post the medium Mystic is a good one for immediately after orange and at its max width is smaller than the Mystic Large. Comfortable because it is squishy and helps you size up via the fact it is tapered. The glass of course is best for long-term dilating because it is completely ridged and guarantees you are reaching your full depth/width.

The average size for men is probably between the Soul Source #2 and #3. You’ll see higher numbers if you look at most studies because men are only asked to disclose and they often exaggerate both length and girth. But some men can be larger than the orange by a bit, and a small few larger than that.