Could we have a little bit more information? How long ago was this done? What was the initial plan? What else was done, if anything? What does Dr? Bradley have to say about your disappointment?

Damn . He did the same shit to me . He did that stupid diagonal cut on the jaw , which made my face look long and slanted . I told him i wanted a small chin , he brought my forward too . He needs to stop that cooking cutter look . Good luck . I’m working at Starbucks and having Jumaily fix me .

Your jaw line looks cute and femenine if anything it gives you more of a unique exotic features why such a big fuss over this? I had my FFS with Dr Cardenas am I 100% happy not at all but we have to be realistic with expectations. One thing that I find troubling is this trend of women wanting that Barbie bimbo look and our narcissistic obcession with how we look its not healthy your face looks beautiful stop crying over the non existent flaw!!

Girl…. You need to relax.

Your entire face is well within female proportion. I actually wanted to go back to my surgeon and get a revision on my jaw so it would look like yours instead of it being so harsh and extending straight across all the way back to my ear.

I had complications in my chin so basically it ended up being square instead of round and i hate it but your chin is round and it isn’t massive like you think it is. I couldnt even figure out what you were upset about looking Dr your pics until I read what you wrote. If you want to have the chin brought back a bit, sure, go for it. I understand you are very upset but this shouldn’t be causing you to feel like you’re on your deathbed. It just shouldn’t. Not with how pretty and feminine you look, it’s just silly. I think you are very sensitive and so I understand that because I’m the same way. I have very intense anxiety and emotion and I’ve felt things that made me feel like what you feel right now. My FFS didn’t go perfectly how I wanted it either but we both look good. My chin got infected, it isnt round the way I wanted and it’s permanently fucking numb. Ur good sis. Seriously trust me sister.

Is there someone you trust who can come over and be with you for a little bit? No one can stop your pain or change what the surgeon did. But perhaps some company would help ease the loneliness? I felt something similar after being raped as a child. The suicidal intent comes and goes for me. When it gets too much and I feel close to acting on my intent, I have a plan where I ask a trusted person to be with me. If that is not possible I always go to the nearest emergency department, call an emergency mental health crisis phone line, or knock on my neighbours door. Neither of us can change what happened but we can be with people who love and support us in the present.

We (most humans) usually can't fully appreciate our own beauty, but specifically because we compare ourselves to others and create standards to compare ourselves to.

The most important thing to remember is there are no 'standard' traits, there is a spectrum. Be careful of thinking in black-and-white (I'm not beautiful)

catastrophising (I will never be beautiful)

magnifying ( because my Y looks 'Z' to me that means I'm Z and therefore neither X nor beautiful)

and

minimizing (even though most of me looks the way I want and like, it doesn't matter because of one detail)

These thoughts aren't true and will eat away at your mental health if you don't get them under control.

Do some self CBT therapy or connect with someone who can help you to do so because if you don't, besides eating away at your mental health, any cosmetic work you get done again or not won't make that big of a difference if you continue to compare yourself on a microscopic level to others so intensely that your ability to see yourself accurately is compromised.

And I'm not going to convince you that your face looks feminine or you look beautiful because you probably won't believe it right now or care but to me, it does. And yes, to me, you are.

Big love to you sista

Honestly honey you look pretty to me. I know that the gender dysphoria is so real and so hard to overcome. Us women have a load on our shoulders and pressure to conform to societal standards. You are beautiful. You are loved. You are cared about. You can overcome this. You matter. Your life matters. I’ve been in your shoes, where the depression feels suffocating and feel like there’s no way out, no way to overcome what we’re struggling with. But it does get better. I’m one to talk because I’ve never been happy with the way I look, but I know that I’m more than a pretty face, just like you are. I know this is overused but it’s true: suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You can overcome this. You are a strong beautiful woman who still has lots to do in this world. It’s not over yet for you. The best is yet to come. Get a second opinion, research more, talk to others, reach out to a close friend. Don’t do anything to yourself please! You can do this, I promise you ❤️

You don't look like a man. Stop it.

I’m not trying to be rude, but you look perfectly normal to me. Very cis passing and asymmetrical jaws and face are normal. Mine is just like yours.

i know how you feel as keojampa ruined my chin and people really can't understand how this part affects the whole face , even more than a forehead because you can't hide it, but it does and it can really bring you so down. I see what you are talking about with the Step-off and it being wide. The good thing in your pic is that it seems like bradley did not do t-osteotomy to narrow it in anyway? So there is still a lot of bone and it can all be redone to give you that smaller V-chin, if that is what you want so it should be fixable. It would be way worse if he shaved the shit out of your chin and there was no option to fix anything but it doesn't seem to be the case and you have the options still. please hang in there.

Please don’t kill your self, I think you’re very pretty.

Im sorry for you but no matter what: you don’t look like a man!

So sorry to hear what you went through :( If he moved your chin forward against your wishes, is there no way you can sue for malpractice? I don’t understand why any doctor would bring the chin forward or do a chin implant for FFS, but some seem to do it.

If it makes you feel any better, i think you still look very feminine and it’s ok to be unhappy with what he did without meaning you don’t look female.

Try Facial Team if you consider a revision

I'm so sorry you feel this way honey, but from what I see your jaw looks feminine. Mine was done and was left very square! I think we are our own worst critics. Please don't feel bad, you are loved and valuable! ❤

Girl your nose and jawline looks amazing. I honestly don’t see any problems, everything looks cis to me.

A small revision will easily fix any issues. You look femme which is better than nothing

First of all, I am so fucking sorry! This is absolutely horrible, going specifically going against what you wanted. Do you think there was anything malicious involved?

I had a similar experience with my grs, my surgeon, (C. Salgado, FL), who is a freaking board certified surgeon , the gold standard in America, and regarded in the surgical community as, "world renowned" in transgender surgeries.

I saw before and after pictures that I only found out later were of actual cis women, wasn't fully informed about the risks and % and types of complications that could occur, went in expecting at least a few inches of depth and woke up to find that's not what happened. That's just the beginning.

I think I was just in shock afterward and figured once the swelling went down everything would be ok. And when it wasn't, I was treated by his staff as if I was a problem.

Have you talked to your surgeon? What does he say?

The first thing you need to do is get consults from different surgeons for a revision. And see what they say about what he did to you. I went to multiple who told me there wasn't much that can be done but maybe for you there's an option?

Second, you should think about filling a complaint, even if you think there was nothing malicious involved. This is far enough away from what you wanted that this man shouldn't be touching other people.

I don’t have your experience or know what you have gone through though so I’m not able to speak on anything other than your pictures.

Can you post a front facing picture or pm one? You have a similar side profile to me and im ftm

you look like brookelynne? if that's how u spell it .. the TikTok princess girl

Sorry you’re struggling but I honestly don’t see anything that bad. Maybe you could discuss it with your Doctor. Hope you feel better you’re beautiful!

I don’t know if this will make you feel better but I spent a good 10 minutes trying to understand what was even wrong. And had to look at a bunch of comments before finally understanding what you were upset about. I’m really sorry you didn’t get the results you wanted but no hugboxing, your chin or your jawline or any feature I can see in the pictures read male to me in the slightest.

But I hope you can achieve the smaller chin you want anyway

All the love in the world

Sue the fuck out of them!! Especially like u said on the non-consent parts and clearly not explaining what would happen.