Maybe an ''OK'' surgeon but ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE PERSON.

Best described as the typical devaluating, mistreating, and gaslighting of a narcissist. Never you could imagine that YOUR SURGEON will mistreat you like THAT, in THAT way.

Specialized surgeons are usually jerks and feel like a "god", and the worst are the ones tied with Psychiatry or with their friend "gender psychiatrists" because the mix between Freudian ideology, and the grandiose ego of such a surgeon, makes a inhuman combo.

Belinky and part of his team and friends, colleagues (like DiMaggio) are absolutely evil people (one young guy was kind but, he's on the doctor's side...) and I'm believing they can (for... Reasons) botch your body purposedly but to extent to not get sued. Smart moves to recommend you do things that will make your recovery worse, and "anyway it was your decision, i never told you to do that" kind of patient-doctor relationship.

They know how to lead you to unhealthy outcomes but not in a way that will make them accountable.

1st Day, 8pm at my room, happy, some unpleasant sensation in my dry mouth but doing WELL. Only at midnight, a deep sharp pain in my right shoulder appeared, and I shut the lights and tried to rest. The pains made it to the omoplat, and started to radiate to the other shoulder. I was completely tired and starting to getting nervous at 3am.

At 5am resigned myself to sleep, and waited for some nurse to tell that I have a hard pain in my back, etc. They did nothing.(1st, 2nd, and 3rd DAY, the same, being I called for a GP or someone of the staff....they did nothing)

Called Dr. Belinky on wednesday 8 am to tell him that I was ''Doc, I'm unable to rest yet, due to a pain in-

''Belinky: OK STOP. STOP. LISTEN. YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND A THING. YOU ARE ON A PRIVATE CLINIC OK? WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME? THERE IS A PROTOCOL, IT'S A PRIVATE CLINIC AND I HAVE NOTHING TO DO NOW. CALL A DR THERE, IT'S THEIR JOB TO ATTEND YOU OK? DON'T CALL ME AGAIN OK?''

me_ I called a Dr! and I was-

Belinky: _OK, KEEP CALLING . YOU GOTTA UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M SAYING, I'M OUT OF THIS, OK?

me:_ yes..but..

Belinky:_ BUT NOTHING, DON'T CALL ME AGAIN (SHUTS THE PHONE and leaves me talking alone).

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This was the start of the hell for me.Day 3 post-op and unable to sleep for almost 4 days in a row. I asked for some sleeping pills. Then at night appeared a psychiatrist and she walked like if ''it was contagious'' and told ''are you sure you want sleeping pills? well you have to take this and this, to have a rest''.We had a brief chat and when I checked what pills she ordered, there was an antipsychotic, so I said ''NO WAY, I'm not gonna take this, I'm not psychotic, I have a real pain''. I slept that night and next morning I was feeling like waking up from a long night, super well rested and telling the nurses that it was right to take sleeping pills, as my shoulder pain wasn't a problem while I was sleeping artificially.

But Javier Belinky doesn't thinks I had to have a good rest and starting to enjoy the journey. He came then to do more gaslighting and BLAMESHIFTING. The thing here escalated more and more and it was HELL.

They'll blame it to "your fucked up mind, you're mentally ill, etc " as those exacts words that dr Belinky repeatedly said to me in the 5 first days on the clinic. Then at the hotel, then when I was home in my province.

Fucking asshole, he tried to hide a deep sharp pain (momentary nerve injury, cervicobrachialgia, OR WHO KNOWS WHAT, BUT HE MUST'VE HELPED ME) in my shoulder that leave me insomniac for almost 4 days, never ever gave me help with sleeping, and he said "it's your head that makes your pain, I won't say the pain didn't exists, but it IS IN YOUR HEAD" then tried to make me take antipsychotics FFS, to try for 2nd time to make me shut my mouth of 3 days in a row calling to the staff "please help me with this pain I CAN'T SLEEP!". I wasn't screaming, but it felt like an inner scream for surviving, I was exhausted, couldn't breath properly, the bandages were too much tight so I couldn't sleep also for that, couldn't relax.

They treated me like a psychotic patient all the time. The nurses were all by his side even they aren't from his team, just the clinic staff. But they covered his dirty ass. One nurse was constantly saying with a fake sweet tone ''you make this pain you feel, is not real OK? you are anxious and thus creating the pain, you have to relax ok?''. Then another nurse told me that the other was talking BS, and that she didn't believed I was psychotic faking a pain in my back.

(then the moment when he started to attack me:)

''OK listen, I'm not telling you are crazy ok? but your head is fucked up, you are mentally ill OK?''

(repeated those hurtful words like 3 times and I couldn't believe what I've heard, WHY he has to be such an agressive coward instead of helping me with my sharp shoulder pain! totally unexplainable because I was on a fucking VULNERABLE POSITION. Maybe he enjoyed see me struggle and having the nightmare of my life)

Then after blaming me for "creating the pain" he gaslighted me every day saying "you fucked up all your recovery, you'll got open wounds now, they'll become infected, you'll loose all the surgery work, many bad things will happen OK?"

He sounded like, not a possibility but eventually will happen, for real. And they happened step by step. Then blamed me.

Again.

But....he never held accountable for the agression I received from day 2 when I asked for alleviation of my shoulder! They NEVER HELPED ME, instead...started a dirty psychological devaluation that put me into a STRESS SHOCK, then I started to feel bad, really bad and they do started to say "are you OK? No you are not ok, you seem to have something bad in your head, right? Yes, there's something bad in your head" ... All with a dark smile and scary tone...

(All this was provoked me to enter a state of vigilance because I never expected of being psychologically attacked by health personnel, especially YOUR surgeon who performed SRS on your body)

So basically they covered up their responsibility for my shoulder pain, covered up some complication in the rectum, all while doing this dirty gaslighting to provoke me to enter on a SHOCK emotional state ... a state that they used TO BLAME TO ME!

This is classic narcissistic BLAMESHIFTING abusive behavior.

What a sickfucks! He should stop taking too much white stuff and start to be a human being! The day 5 the 1st dilation, he was HIGH AF. Throwed the 3-dilators kit in bed, like if it were garbage. His mood was dirty, aggressive, psycho, and constantly devaluating.This put me in STRESS AGAIN and it took me several days in the hotel to recover in again. Then he continued the GASLIGHT through WhatsApp and phone calls. He's really a psychopath. I have MANY phonecalls recorded with him doing abandon of person and gaslighting, telling hurtful words. I know the coward takes white shit and then start to act like a sickfuck, but he only does it when he's on it...coward...

(Other ex patient told me the same about he getting high! So it's not my ideation, he really changed mood in the same pattern as the sniffers. You can put a car in your nose no problem, but this doesn't allows you to be abusive with your patients you sickfucks and cowards, because you do it only WHEN HIGH).

You're a vulnerable human being when in the OR and while you're trans, but there are horrendous people there aimed to put you on stress, you feel very very BAD, then they blame it to your "bad mental health" they themselves created!

Classic psychopath behavior and this happens not only in health system, but it shouldn't be! You go to the OR to expect leaving in your best state, not worst!

I don't know. I didn't went to get SRS to be devaluated and pushed down, and abandoned in the hotel. I TRUSTED MY SURGEON LIKE NEVER. I was mindfucked by him and then he blamed me for the stress he & his team provoked on me.

If you're from another country and bring USD DOLLARS in the hand you'll be treated like the Queen of Windsor. This way they evade paying taxes to the State.

If you're a local and bring local Peso (ARS) and with no accompaniment you'll be mistreated, pushed down, pissedof, attacked, gaslighted and abandoned.

Just warning locals of DiMaggio and Belinky. Horrible persons both.

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This was hurtful to write and to transcribe from the recorded phonecalls and whatsapp voice notes. I'm recovered now thanks to few only friends and other compassionate SRS surgeons, but he left me with PTSD and I needed to get helped by a CBT psychologist and a psychiatrist to treat it.

I was in tremor while I was writing down the phone calls and remembering the worst moments at the clinic (IADT). I DO NOT have fear anymore of some people here trying to save his dirty ass, or defend him in any way, I'm here to give advise NOT to risk your life & health leaving them in dirty's Javier Belinky's hands.