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u/[deleted]
Mon Dec 12 21:11:51 2022 UTC
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u/onelifetofigureitout
Mon Dec 12 21:54:34 2022 UTC
(2 children)

I presume tucking is much easier?

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Mon Dec 12 23:50:12 2022 UTC
(0 children)

god I hope so. the twins are the only thing that make tucking uncomfortable for me, the lil guy doesn’t complain

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Tue Dec 13 05:01:49 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I haven’t tried tucking yet because the incision is still a bit sensitive but I can tell its going to be much easier. Most of my bulge is gone and its now just a matter of pushing my penis back

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u/[deleted]
Mon Dec 12 21:16:03 2022 UTC
(0 children)

No pain at all and swelling is nearly all gone. At this point, there is only slight tenderness at the incision sight. No complications of any kind.

I can’t express how badly I needed this surgery. I feel more comfortable in every way that a girl can fee comfortable. I feel so light and clean and feminine. More than anything, I wake up each day grateful that those awful things are finally gone. I feel more comfortable with my body than I thought possible. I love being a woman and I love being trans.

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u/Time2BMe
Mon Dec 12 21:51:45 2022 UTC
(9 children)

Are you planning on having SRS eventually? I'm debating on whether to have an orchi.

Btw... grew up in Ansonia. 🤗

Mon Dec 12 23:06:00 2022 UTC
(7 children)

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u/ooisee
Tue Dec 13 05:02:29 2022 UTC
(2 children)

In some types of SRS they might use “tunica vaginalis” tissue for self-lubricatin neovagina. It is impossible to keep tunica vaginalis and remove testicles only.

So, if there are no medical reasons for orchi, and one is going to stay open to all SRS techniques; orchi might be not just unnecessary but counterproductive.

But if it’s personal aesthetics preference — it’s a different story, of course :)

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Fri Jan 20 01:01:30 2023 UTC
(1 child)

I am getting an ochi and was concerned about not being able to get the Supporn technique. However my surgeon mentioned that this was not an issues. Where did you get this information? I am curious!

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u/ooisee
Fri Jan 20 10:49:17 2023 UTC
(0 children)

If your surgeon(s) (who is going to perform the SRS) is telling you that there is no issue - plz trust them.

Info was from one of the "pre-requisite" lists on one of the SRS-clinic sites. If I find it again - I'll give you a link.

Just curiosity: is it for aesthetics or to get rid of antiandrogens?
(feel free to ignore, if the question is not relevant =)

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Tue Dec 13 05:02:23 2022 UTC
(3 children)

Since you had yours by itself first can I ask like what swelling is there and from what really the insecion or from cutting the cord? I really wouldn't have thought there would be anything it's just very thin layer of skin and a small cut and then the white bubble of whatever they are encased in and snip and tie cord and that's all correct? I've seen it on YouTube and I have literally cut thousands of pigs and they looked just like the humans on YouTube but a lot smaller being cut at 6 weeks old. Thanks

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Wed Dec 14 19:30:16 2022 UTC
(2 children)

You can definitely feel the ends of the swollen cords for about a week or so. It isn’t too bad — more like a throbbing and a soreness. After about a week, they go down and you cant feel them. I had some bloating the first two days that made it more painful than usual.

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Wed Dec 14 19:36:15 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I really wish I could get mine done, that would be another great baby step towards my goal but insurance has to come first and hopefully I will have that obstacle behind me after the holidays.

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Tue Dec 13 05:05:12 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Yes, I want to get SRS for sure. I have a consultation planned for February. For me, orchiectomy was absolutely essential (I had it at 10 months HRT) and I couldn’t wait for SRS in order to get rid of them. I had profound, debilitating dysphoria from my testicles and I knew I couldn’t live with them as long as I can deal with my penis. I would definitely recommend orchie if you feel you can’t wait for or don’t want to get SRS

And nice! My orchie was done at Griffin Hospital in Derby, but I’ve spent a lot of time in Ansonia

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u/Eva-in-Heels
Tue Dec 13 04:31:36 2022 UTC
(1 child)

I have the same question. How about erection and orgasm? Same or harder? Thank you for your answer in advance. 😊

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Tue Dec 13 05:00:13 2022 UTC
(0 children)

I can still get erections easily, though they aren’t hard enough to penetrate. This was the case with HRT before my orchie but I feel like they have gotten softer since.

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u/Daniduenna85
Tue Dec 13 02:51:47 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Any changes to erectile function? Is it easier to tuck now?

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u/batgirlnotrobin
Tue Dec 13 05:18:32 2022 UTC
(1 child)

Saw this and god my SRS appointment can’t come sooner 🥲

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Tue Dec 13 05:27:50 2022 UTC
(0 children)

You’ll get there ❤️

Waiting was absolute hell but it was worth it. Hang in there!!

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u/Dingoaud
Tue Dec 13 01:47:58 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Looks good enjoy the empty feeling, its the bedt thing i have done

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u/Admirable-Plan8461
Tue Dec 13 02:01:51 2022 UTC
(2 children)

Was it easy to get this procedure? What is the order of operations needed to get this done? What state or location? I've always wanted an orchi but I dont even know how to start the process. So many restrictions seems like .. Appreciate any insights and thanks so much in advance. Btw looks amazing!!!

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Tue Dec 13 05:14:49 2022 UTC
(1 child)

It depends a lot on where you live and what insurance you have.

General rules are 12 months HRT and two letters from mental health professionals — one of which must be at the doctoral level. However, the new WPATH requirements only ask for 6 months HRT and one letter. Some places are going by the old rules and some are going by the new.

I had mine done at 10 months HRT. It was not easy. I had to see two different urologists and only the second would agree to help me before 10 months. Before that, my therapist and primary care physician had to write very serious letters detailing that I was a suicide and self-harm risk if I was denied surgery any longer — and this was true. My testicles were making hard for me just to function. If i saw them or felt them too much, I would get nauseous and cry. My therapist and doctor — both of whom are trans — took me very seriously and fought hard on my behalf. Even so, there was a good chance my insurance wasn’t going to cover it before 12 months — and I’m a bit amazed that they did. I had state Medicaid and had this done in Connecticut.

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Wed Dec 14 20:49:43 2022 UTC
(0 children)

So many hoops to jump through just for an orchi? Good to know and thank you for the feedback.

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u/Environmental_Ad7064
Tue Dec 13 18:12:52 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Looks good and to those searching for a doctor stay away from Urologist Aaron Grotas of Mount Sinai, NYC. He is a butcher/ botcher with the worst bedside manner or follow up care.

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u/rsm78
Tue Dec 13 01:06:03 2022 UTC
(2 children)

Clean looks like mine :)

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Tue Dec 13 05:15:33 2022 UTC
(1 child)

It feels so clean too!!

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u/rsm78
Tue Dec 13 06:01:56 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Yea i don’t even need to tuck anymore with mine.. btw your penis will shrink considerably so just a heads up :)

I planned to get srs later so i kept the sack just like you :)

Anyways congrats its a huge step.. make sure to get the notarized letter stating your legal gender is female now you will need it later

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u/DallasDaddy500
Tue Dec 13 14:48:07 2022 UTC
(0 children)

Congratulations! Looks great. I think my gurl will be ready for surgery in a few years. She hates having balls

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u/karns01
Wed Dec 14 17:01:11 2022 UTC
(3 children)

What kind of orchi did you get? I can't even see the incision. I got mine 3 weeks ago and my incisions are waaaaayyy more pronounced. They aren't infected but I'm a little concerned

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Wed Dec 14 18:09:33 2022 UTC
(2 children)

I had a scrotal incision. It is hard to see, but the incision is that little groove toward the bottom of my scrotum. It had decreased a ton since surgery.

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Wed Dec 14 21:53:32 2022 UTC
(1 child)

We're they able to take out the trunk and everything up in the inguinal canals through those incisions? My urologist said he wanted to go through the top to do that

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Thu Dec 15 00:28:57 2022 UTC
(0 children)

No, they just removed my testicles. I had the option to take everything out but this was recommended by my doctor as the easiest method.