(see post history for previous entries about this surgery)
Woops, skipped a couple weeks of updates...this post covers weeks 9, 10, and 11. There's no special stuff, just the same topics of swelling, dilation, healing.
Swelling
I don't think this has changed much, which is fine, because I don't notice in in everyday life. I guess from here on it's just the last bits of swelling that are slowly going away.
Dilation
I've "re-stretched" things by now which is nice. I was only doing twice/daily for a week due to business and I could feel it get a bit harder to dilate.
Still on purple though! I figure I'll size up when I get back home in a couple weeks.
Healing
There's lots of nice pink peritoneal tissue in the mirror! Thankfully the granulation tissue never got too bad.
I actually haven't tried more intense exercise than hiking yet (cuz I'm busy nowadays) so that'll have to wait till December as well.
Nerves are going a bit crazy sometimes, some feeling has came back in weird ways. There's places I can touch and random-ish nerves will just light up, like this spot at the top I can press and feel it all the way to the tip of my penis. I'm assuming things will normalize but it's pretty fun(ny) for now.
The discharge/lubrication/whatever is real , folks. 24/7. It's definitely influenced by "things" but I'm not sure what the factors are yet. I think being more active (e.g. when I hike) means more damp~wetness. Maybe also how hydrated I am. It'll be interesting to see the change when I go from dilating 3x/day to 1x/day...I had previously assumed that a significant portion of the discharge was leftover lube from dilating but TBH now I don't think so.
Mental Health
100% fine. Don't really think about it too much TBH, it's just a part of life now. And I'm glad for it, especially since obviously 1) it hasn't healed all the way 2) I haven't had the part 2 (labiaplasty) yet. But even if nothing else happened I wouldn't regret it.
Future Things
I'm having my 3-month post-op checkup soon, where I'll schedule my labiaplasty!! Excited.
Also I've tentatively decided that I will post pics after the labiaplasty, so y'all have that to look forward to.
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